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how important is the structure of attracting a girl before seducing her, is this the same across the borad for every close regardless, if its a number, kiss, lay......do you always have to attract before everything because women seem to like me but i feel im always the one having to make the move (they rarely seduce me) and i get shot down, did i not take enough time to make them attracted to me?
If she isn't attracted to you, she won't let you seduce her. COMFORT and RAPPORT are what you need for mutual seduction to happen. Using micro-calibration and being able to gauge her comfort levels will actually make her want to be seduced because she will feel like she is seducing you.
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