Hi Guys,

I met a girl online by an online dating site. Tomorrow we have our first date, we're goin to do some glow in the dark midget golfing on our first date. If there is a connection we're going to dinner afterwards.

I would love to here some tips from you guys how to make this date succesful. It's my first date after a long term relationship and my biggest problem is to have an interesting conversation.

I'm also not the most prettiest guy on the block, but i'm allready working on my inner game. So I think that's a good start.

Tomorrow i'm trying to create some raport with here by talking about the things she allready told me and hooking up to that conversation with my own experienses.

I can sometimes be a funny guy and make some sarcastic comments towards a girl. This to make the conversation a little bit more fun and be a little bit cocky and sometimes neg her a bit. Maybe make some compliments after the neg and give her a pet on the shoulder to make her feel comfortable again. The push and pull theory.

Do you guys think i'm on the good way or do you have any tips for me?

Greatings,

Jay

I've done a fair amount of online dating, and most women want to meet up and chat first, and I am more than happy to oblige. Of course, there are a lot of flakes out there who simply break off contact a few days before, but because this chick wants to meet up for an actual activity I'd say it's doubtful that will happen. Regardless of what you may have talked to this girl about online or over the phone, I'd still caution against jumping straight into an activity like minigolf. Maybe I'm overly cautious, but she might be a complete loser, or psycho, or single mommy, or whatever it is you want to avoid, and you could be stuck with her the entire night.