So I met this girl who goes to a college near me through dating website. I already did my due diligence and we've webcammed and talked over the phone. In the beginning the texting was at a decent pace but now she's playing REALLY hard to get like replying every 3-4 days. I stopped replying for a few days to see if my theory was correct and when I texted her she replied in a milisecond. She was the first one to say we should meet up and I agreed but then we had a misunderstanding before Valentine's day and it made it awkward.

So last Saturday or the other she called me from a blocked number when we haven't communicated in a few days and was pretending to be someone else just to hear my voice. She's intelligent and we get along but she can be very immature. She also drunk texted me twice.

Anyways I rarely show emotion even with the mental illness and I'm pretty ruthless which is why my past relationships didn't work out. I don't really have anxiety as I hook up all my friends when we go out because I find it empowering pulling strings yet when it comes to me I don't really feel sexually attracted until some sort of emotion comes out. I get hit on all the time especially by older women or club girls but I find no interest in mundane women. I tend to like the crazy ones that don't cross the line.

So with her she seemed like the type that likes emotional guys so I kind of overstepped my kindness and seemed too needy (AFC) and then got pissed when she evaded my invitation to go out last Friday. I know she likes me because she made it clear as I did to her but it's really annoying the fuck out of me because I haven't shown interest in someone in 3 years. I just find it harder because I don't have the same mindset as everyone around me being a gray-asexual.

Anyways I blocked her from all social websites and she hasn't texted in a few days yet I know for a fact that she will text me back. I've confronted her twice about her evasiveness but what I'm thinking is to stop pretending to be oblivious and give her an ultimatum because I really do want to see what comes of this. Thanks in advanced.