Hello guys , I am kinda stuck in a weird situation and I kinda needs some tips on this . A few months ago I invited a girl I really liked to a party , we only talked a few times at parties but now she said she will come by herself at my party ( jackpot) . The thing is ... I invited ALLOT of people and two sisters from my ex highschool showed up . I noticed that one of them was following me everywhere but I didn't care at that time . Now comes the funny part , I have a gigantic yard , and I was talking to everyone. After a few hours I started to look for that girl ( telling myself , eeh she is tipsy , these guys are going to sleep soon , so I have plenty of time ) Found her hammered in the grass . OOk..... I ended up talking and joking all night with those two sisters and two mates of mine . Next day we all left but we made a new group a friends , me those two sisters , the two friends and sometimes that girl would show up for a few hours and then leave. Ok everyone in the group knew that I liked her , and one time we went for a grill and I got kinda drunk and placed my hand on one of the girls shoulder. Weird discussion next day : My friend told me that she got mad and wanted to tell me and we should solve it not to make things weird in the group , so I called her and told her , ok U know I like x , and we are friends , why are you making such a fuss ? I didnt sleep with you or something. ,Now things started to get strange : By curiosity , I went out with all the girls one time and that friend started to sit in my lap in front of that girl I liked and stuff like that . I started to wonder what the heck I should do .. I couldnt hook up with both of them because they know each other .
And here comes my faliure : I hooked up with that girl I liked but started to feel different about my friend and even her sister told me that she liked me and that they even made a bet that we would hook up , I decided I want to go for the one in my group , and things got shitty from here (because of me) we started to get closer and closer , hold hands and shit but every single time I didnt do anything because I was afraid of rejection ( after dumping that one I chased for months , loosing this was gonna make me commit suicide) and slowly she started loosing interest . And dunno , eventually the group fell apart , I am constantly talking to the two sisters , and It is strange , She always texts me , never asks me for anything ( this doesnt feel like a no win friendzone) So I at the moment I am keeping a bit of distance and wandering how shold I act to start a relationship with her ( from what I can see she is not sure about her feelings) And if i get a second chance , I am not going to blow it . So guys , what tips can you give me ? lay low for some time and then swing back or ?