Long time no speak people!

Its been a ride, a wild one... With some heartbreak however I'm back for some advice from my favourite fellow PUAs!

I have been attracted to a girl from the age of 17. Kind of a teenage crush that has developed over the years into something so strong it is all i think of on a day to day basis.

Here was the issue, she was in an LTR for over 4 years. We met a couple of times during that period, and did no more than kissed. However, she recently split with him to be "independent".

She decided we should go out after coming into my work to visit me after a while of not seeing her - and she messaged me saying i looked really hot and we should go for a drink. Which i obliged to.

We had great fun, kissed, talked and got a little steamy in the car afterwards.

Heres the issue, i want things to go great, i want her to fall for me and i want her to be with me as i believe we'd make a great couple now. But i dont want to pressure her early and push her away because she isnt ready after only being single for a few weeks.

BUT, i dont want her to meet someone while i back off, them lose her in that sense either. So im very confused at present and dont know how to approach this. It hasnt happened to me before.

Ive arranged to see her on tuesday for our second date, and it was her idea to invite me to her place to "keep her company while her mum works nights" so i believe this is promising.

I just want some advice so i avoid the hurdles, the issues, and ways in which i can let her slowly fall for me so we can make a go of something.

Thank you for reading and look forward to hearing from you!

Peace.
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Pickup Truck

"If it can be dreamed, it can be done"

If i were you as you said i would not pressure her into a relationship, just let her ease into it. As for the fear of losing her i dont think there is much you can do. You just need to rely on the fact (if it is fact) that you are better then most of the men out there and hopefully she'll realize that. If you believe this that feat should no longer exist.

You dont need to "back off", just keep at her. Be honest with her and hopefully shell be honest with you should she start seeing another guy. It is useless to fear what may never happen.

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"The key is to diversify...Whatever works. It's like fishing with 7 lines in the water instead of just one. You're more likely to a catch fish that way."-PUAninja

Yeah man, I feel you.

I just needed to see what to do in front of me in order to understand properly.

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Pickup Truck

"If it can be dreamed, it can be done"