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PostPosted: Sat Feb 23, 2013 4:19 pm 
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over the past couple of months, ever since i got into this community I have been developing huuge amounts. I almost feel like I know what to do in different situations now. And ever since i lost my virginity i actually managed to get 3 different girls in which i have sex with.

1 of them is average looking but the other two in my mind are actually beautiful, I only hang out with this 1 girl 99% because she is like an HB 8,5 while the other 2 are HB 6.

So last night, when i called one of them (the one i lost my virginity too) and told her to meer me in the city so we could go to my place (giving the hint i want to fuck) she shows up after about an hour, i leave the club to meet her, and i was quite drunk so i accidently said the wrong name when i said hi.
ever since now she becomes defensive as fuck, i make up an explanation on how i was making a joke and that one of friends i was with had that name etc...

we start walking towards the taxi are (about 15 minute walk) and i tell her she can ask me 3 questions and that i would answer all 3 in honesty.
1.She asks me if i like her, i say yes..
2. she asks why i want to be with her, and i come with the normal bullshit that shes a "special girl"
3. she asks me why i think she is special, and i just reply that "its just one of those feelings you know, cant be explained"

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HERES THE PART WHERE IT ALL FUCKS UP AND MY MOOD TURNS

she tells me to ask her 3 questions and she will answer it...
(i basically repeat the questions)
1. do you like me?, she says yes (with a huge smile)
----->>> 2. why do you want to be with me? she replies with some girlish talk on how i make her feel good and bla bla fucking bla and that i am the only one she feels she can talk to etc.
So i reply "haha no you like me cause im handsome, and good looking" and the bitch looks at me weirdly and says "no you are not". I say "yes i am" and she starts saying "no" again...???

When she saw i became crushed she came up to me and said, "no you are goodlooking nevermind" but srsly wtf?

i basically didnt let it bother me cause i wanted to fuck last night, but we came home, i got laid, she left this morning (and when she did i was happy cause i honestly dont want to see her anymore)

If she texts me i wont reply, if she message me facebook i will delete her, i want nothing to do with her. I know I can get girls, but seriously this pissed me off and now i feel im one step back on my pickup skills....

WHAT THE FUCK???


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 23, 2013 5:14 pm 
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Probably she just wanted to say that the primary reason why she wants to be with you is not your look for various reasons. If you don't want to see her anymore, then that's that though

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 23, 2013 5:54 pm 
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you are qualifying yourself to her. Why did you even have the need to ask those questions? The need *. You should have made the situation into a playful one. You forgot her name, should have winked right after you made the mistake, she may have let you play it off.

You say you don't give a fuck but I bet if you saw her around you would get angry for no reason. Don't lie to yourself. This is actually good for you, you can ask yourself why you are angry and see what other things you need to fix to help you in your PUA development. Last night, you just got destroyed by the shit tests she threw at you. You fell into the trap. It was an off day;brush it off.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 23, 2013 7:20 pm 
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First of all calm down bro! You get laid by her whenever you want(thats what I assume from your post.) She said she likes you.. take it easy. An alpha male never reacts out of anger. Don't ask her to lie to you, appreciate that she is a honest person! Now i'm not telling you to not freeze her ass out, but think about it before you do something rash that you will regret later on and make a post here about how to regain a fuckkbuddy lol!


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 23, 2013 7:40 pm 
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Wow, you got affected really fast when she told she thinks your not handsome huh? Why put yourself in this

situation anyways?? It won't change the way you look or how handsome you are.. It's a perspective anyway.

Next time if you face a situation like that, just keep it sexual and flirty, and don't ask questions to get approval

from her.. You are what you think you are.. If you act like it, and believe it then you are that.. At the end of

the day, it's all in your mind man..

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 23, 2013 8:20 pm 
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i wont regret dumping her, worst case scenario the other girls im with dont want to be with me no more and ill fap for a while b4 finding a new one.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 24, 2013 4:17 am 
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Dude you are so insecure i can not believe you dump her...Work on your game and check your ego. You want to be good with woman you need understand women. My gf says i am ugly all the fucking time, either bothering or shit testing or hey maybe i am ugly, who the fuck cares dude... You can not be this reactive and needy.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 24, 2013 6:16 am 
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I'm agreeing with what skills says.
I honestly just don't even see what the problem is..
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i basically didnt let it bother me
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we came home, i got laid

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 24, 2013 6:07 pm 
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Damn dude. Work on your fucking insecurities.

She said she likes you and in a second she said you're ugly. Clearly she is fucking with you.

Saying "you like me because I am handsome" won't get you any other response with girls.
Did you expect her to say "OH NO, YOU GOT ME! NOW LET ME SUCK YOUR DICK."

Wtf?

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 24, 2013 7:21 pm 
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wrong move mate..... could have done better :)


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 24, 2013 9:14 pm 
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I can remember cracking a joke with an ex-gf about me being handsome and charming and she said "No, fuck you."

I know that I am handsome and somewhat charming, but arrogance can come across as unattractive to a lot of women.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 24, 2013 11:54 pm 
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Ya man u got way too sensitive there.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 25, 2013 6:07 am 
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Not going to lie, when some chick called me short (I'm 5'9) it got to me for a while even though it was stupid it just proves we all need to work on not giving a shit about what other people think and more importantly not let it mess with our self-confidence.

Focus less on whether the girl was right or wrong and focus more on your reaction to her negative comments. Keep building that mental toughness!


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