Hey, fellas. I'm reading up on some male PUA stuff myself (I am a woman), and I'm just wondering if there's any discussion about what women PUAs should do? Do you think any of this stuff crosses over from men to women? How effective might an alpha female be? I often hear things about how men love confident, strong women who know what they want and so forth, but what about women who are more assertive than the men they're after? Is this an automatic problem merely because men "ought" to be the ones to take charge?

The whole point of this game has 2 points,
#1 Enjoy our selves immensely just from playing the game
#2 Well, you know.
We have to play this game because you are the ones that control that ultimately holds the door.


If your problem is number one, make yourself approachable. Women normally do this by dancing with each other on the dance floor. This is a HUGE sign to guys that they want to be approached normally.
If you want #2, and if you want to be a woman PUA, walk up to your target,
ask him if he would like to get a room. Seriously, it's that easy,

So I don't think we can understand your question. What are you wanting exactly?

If you read "The Game," the woman described in that book as a PUA served a very specific purpose. She used calculating tactics to pick up girls to be prostitutes or strippers, I forget now. Someone can correct me please.

As to your questions, an alpha female is VERY effective. Heres why because there are so many beta males out there, alpha females get what they want often from them. (Depending on how attractive you are) But being attractive doesn't really matter. Almost any girl can make themselves a 8. For example, what we are basically doing is imitating male 10's. We are acting like 10's so people perceive us as 10's. So I don't know how attractive you are, but doll yourself up, take on the personality of a 10 female, which is lots of smiling, laughing, and just responding to other people. (Watch A lot of movies I guess.) Think of like celebrity's that used to look not so good, and look good now. Julia Roberts, she is not really the most attractive person, but because of her clothes, and most importantly, her personality to convey she is attractive, she becomes attractive. You might not believe me, but it is very true

I say Julia Roberts first, because you might not be able to see past the image she has generated for herself so easily. My next example is Mary Lynn Rajskub. She is a comedian that took the roll on 24 as the Computer Tech. Over the past 4 years, she has become very hot. She wears nice clothes, her personality has changed a little bit, her body language is completly different. She's hot.

And really thats all you have to do. The rest is up to guys.

I don't really know how being a cougar works, I've never been approached by one. I've seen them lurking though, I think all they do is wait to be approached.

It transfers quite well in my opinion. Don't look at the formulas that guys use, but look at the psychology behind them and you'll just learn the social dynamics behind what is going on. If you understand that, then you can be a PUA.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

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If you read The Game, Style's current girlfriend, Lisa, basically uses all the techniques on him and she hooked him. So judging from just that one story I'd say that the basic FMAC framework is very similar. Identify where you're falling short within that basic framework and see what you can do to improve it. Attraction will be different because women are attracted to different traits than men (in most cases) but there are tons of guys who can tell you very specifically what they are attracted to.