Hi,

Just looking to see if someone has a short answer to this;

Is this a pattern that means anything? Date a girl a few
months, she breaks it off, then like 3 months later you
hear that she's getting married; Soon.

I'm not against the idea by any means, I just figure
I'd want to date'm a while first! It seems like they're
trying to say that they can't see themselves fitting in
with the idea; with me, anyway;

I wouldn't ask, but it's happened like 5 times to me in the last
2 years or so;

I know, I know, kind of a Newbie question;
I've never heared it discussed anywhere though...

Puzzle.

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excitement is perception"

If anything, I can recommend this: Don't take it personally. Whatever decision they have made to get married probably has little or nothing to do with you or anything you've done. If you think otherwise, you'll develop a stigma about yourself.

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"We are what we constantly do. Therefore excellence is not rare, but a habit"

I agree with Nukez. It's their shit, not yours.