Ok, this might be long one but bear with me. Im average [or very slightly above] looking and work as pianist in a primary school as well as other music related jobs. In the past, i have relied on luck and chance with regards women. therefore, i occasionally get an admirer who flirts with me. I am very comfortable around women and can be charming [bearing in mind im not a pua, just an average guy...whos also been in a soon to end relationship for 8 years]. Primary schools tend to be 99% female which is fine with me as i tend to often get on better with women anyway and regardless of age or weather i want to lay them, enjoy building a repore with them and sometimes a little harmless flirting.
My current job, although im very passionate about it, doesnt pay the bills and hopefully next year will be starting my post grad course to qualify as a general primary school teacher....dont worry, il get to the point........the school that im at says the will take me on for my placement work and they have a qualified mentor who just started last september. She also happens to be gorgeous and really nice. I suddenly found my self nervous around her!!!!!! I dont think it is blatently obvious or anything but i am!!!
At the end of term night out, only four of us went out and i ended up sat with her. We chatted and had loads in common. I managed to maintain a good flow of conversation despite the wierd butterfly shit going on in my stomach.
First, im looking at ioi's? She has offered to help me with my statement on the application form. [this wednesday after school] But shes nice like that and says she enjoys doing things like that.
When i walked into the staff room, she smiles at me.. .but so do 3 of the other teachers who are my mums age. [im thinking of last tuesday when i was last in school]
She doesnt seek me out intentionally or sit with me in the staff room, but choses to sit with others. I dont move from where i am but when i leave, i stop to very briefly chat.
When trying to organise wednesday, i couldnt get to see her as she was in a meeting so i left a note under her windscreen asking if mon tue or wed any good and that i would either catch her in school the following day or ring me on [and i put my number down]. She waited for me to find her.
Finally [youl be glad to know!] Apart from the fact that i seem popular at school, you are of course never sure exactly what people really think of you. Most of them i think know me quite well and many know im in a rocky relationship but i know a couple of parents and teachers have at some point joked with me that they think im a bit of a "ladies man"! I dont know if she feels this or if its just cos im the only bloke in school, am reasonably good looking and dress quite well. Also, i need to be quite subtle and sure of things as the woman will be mentoring me for the next year! hope theres enough info here. Would appreciate any help from the experts [i know its a bit of an odd one!] with particular reference to ioi's and roughly what to do next...Oh, i told her that i was really greatful for her help and would definately pay her back. She said theres really no need!...twice!...is this a bad sign?