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will someone explain to me this concept.. and give me an example of lines, games, routines that you would use for each. so I understand it better
A1. I understand is the opener dont really need example for this one i know thers a lot
A2. I think I understand is DHV. (can i get example of this one?)
A3. I dont know? I need an example to understand this one
C1. Example plz!
C2. Example plz
C3-S3 are pretty self explanatory I think feel free to add
thanks appreciate it
haha, lets see if i can do this outta my head and not cheat looking at books.
A2: example: hey, I can only stay a sec, i really need to get back to my friends and take them to this club they're dying to go to (leader of men + False time constraint). But I wanted to know what you thought about this, see this guy is etc etc etc trying to sue me becauese of what happened last week. my girlfriend (preselection) called me up, she had just gotten out of work where she entertains (preselection) and told me this creepy guy started hitting on her and was following her home with some of his friends making remarks. she called me and said to come get her and walk her home (protector of loved ones), when i got there, the guys started harrassing both of us. we had about enough, and i casually turned around, walked towards the guy in front of the group, looked him in the eye, and told him, very calmly, and directly (not being emotionally affected), he better go home now, or I will start some shit with all of you. he gave me some crap, and got in their car to leave, then they pulled up next to us again. i calmly walked over to where there was brick on the ground, walked over to his car, and smashed the windshield.....then the back windshield. they left. now the guy is suing me
haha, i went off there, but pretty much showing thos qualities in a story.
A3: get her to DHV to you. say things to her like "oh, that hat is so cute, it looks like those hats from middle school, awe, i'll bet you havn't gotten a new one since 1996, its SO CUTE that you're so sentimental" then she'll JUSTIFY herself to you, saying something like "i bought it at (expenive store) just last week, i don't wear anything THAT old" etc etc
C1: is building comfort at the meeting location (at the club)
C2: is building comfort at an alternative location which you have 'bounced' to or moved to, between the meeting location and the sex location (at the coffee shop across the street), (then can escalate to your apartment living room)
C3: is comfort buildign in the sex location (your bedroom, her bedroom, the living room, etc)
CHAT
