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Hola hombres.
Was set to have a recently-met gal come over mine this week, but due to logistics (my achilles heel) with us being at uni, and my Momms being home this week, it wasn't practical. She has shown all the attraction signs, and i'm sure shizz will happen.
She wanted to raincheck when told Mum and her friends would have the house, which is set for next week.
That being said, provide your opinion on how to play the text game from here on out?
Should I text the same amount (around 5 per day), go less, or go even days without? The risk here is losing attraction, we only met for a few hours the previous Friday.
Or should I continue on and fluff for a week, getting to know her and building comfort? Potentially going overkill?
I've had good and bad results from both approaches in the past.
Any opinions would be appreciated!
-SilverTonguedFox
Don't text her unless she initiates it. Things can get COMPLETELY fucked up through a text message because 1. You don't have a chance to recover from a message she didn't react to the right way 2. Its very very difficult to portray the correct emotions in 160 characters. Ja feel?
Don't even bring it up and simply assume its going to happen. Personally... I'd act like I forgot about it until she brings it up. I try not to make plans with a girl until its actually the day of (spontaneous) because really... You don't make plans with your friends to hang out a week in advance like that... do you? Don't make it seem like a big deal and it will happen.
Good luck bro. (Bring a condom lol knowing that you have it and you are ready will make it seem alot more likely to happen in your eyes so you won't have to seem like you are pushing for it so hard. You will know that you are ready for it when it happens. You don't want her to think you came over JUST to get your dick wet. Plus... You don't want no babies... do you?)