Hey guys, i used to talk to this one girl we ended up going to prom and all but after prom everything just went downhill we stoped talkin and all that stuff. I felt that she wasnt into me so i stoped talkin to her and for awhile i was being a little mean to her (i kno not a good thing to do). Now randomly some times (once in a blue moon) she would IM me and i might run into her. I was just curious is it possible to win her over? What would you guys think would be a good idea to do to win her back? How would you go about doing this i dont think Iming her would be a good idea that would show way to much interest. I tryed DHV last time i talked to her, i couldnt think of many negs to throw in about her but we had some sort of a conversation and then it kind of died out. I dont think shes interested in me YET but is it possible to get her?

THanks

learn the beautiful art of reframing. use the search, its been talked about over and over. look for framing and reframing. if you cant find anything that you find helpfull come back and pm me and we'll see if we cant figure this out.

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alright let me do a quick search i always hear the word framing/reframing but i could never figure out what it is...

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Umm i actually just searched reframing and i got maybe a short page of results but none of them really had to do much about framing or reframing? did i search it wrong? i just typed in Reframing...

well um I am new to this too so I'm not an expert that can give excellecnt advice but is my 2 cents um I use the Mystery method so here is an suggestion if you know MM

I think that if she is IMing you depending on what she saids you can tell if it's IOI's or if she is just wanted to make sure you aren't upset at her cause you said you were mean to her

if they are IOIs then she has interest so you can just quickly jump pass A2 game and pay more attension to A3

push-pull
takeaways
Bait,hook,reel,release

so like A3 stuff to regenerate an attraction cause she know your value she was with you before you still use your DHV routines but remember she knows you. so be congruent don't tell her things that she know to be not true .. so if she saw you in your house all the time using AIM or MSN and then you tell her about how you like to travel and see the world it aint going to fly ..

hope it works out I'll try looking for other things to help too and if I find anything usefull I post again or PM you

Oh and I just thought of it... Risky in my mind but you can try it if you think it's good and can work I warn you I thought of this at 3:30 am

in your DHV stories throw in a girl that you recently met and is interested in you and was really nice at first and you even exchanged numbers and email but she suddenly came on to strong etc so you don't really feel anything for her and she even offered you sex to entice you and you don’t know how to get rid of her.

kind of use a pawn for this or a pivot will work take one photo with your phone. show your target the picture of you and this girl ( pawn or pivot) As you mention the story

shows pre-selection by other women

and if that story is incongruent with whom you are now then change it to. You met this girl and thought she was an cool person and wanted to be friends but then she took it as a relationship and you don’t know what to do.

Hey guys thanks for the replys i actually just talked to Prettyboy last night and he gave me some good ideas if they dont work ima try this... thanks for the replys very helpful