so i dated this girl for 6 months she was my first gf, im a typical nice guy, treated her really good, sent her flowers etc. she loved it at first but then eventually i get messed about by her for a while then she dumps me. she prob cheated on me aswell and had all the power in the relationship. thing is its been 2 months and i still cant get her out of my head. even though she isnt good for me and it would never work out.

i reckon she wants to be friends with benefits cus when we broke up she said i still think youre hot and comments on how nice my shirt looked on me. but i havent really spoke to her since! i have been with a few diff girls since but still all i can think about is my ex and the good times that i spent with her.

i have learnt alot from the relationship with her and will never let a girl treat me like that again and if she starts giving me shit i wont stand for it anymore. but was i in love with this girl or do i just want her cus i know i cant have her? i need to forget her and get on with my life but she's still on my mind 24/7!!!

You just have to give it time dude.. Get out there and keep meeting new girls.

Sometimes it takes a while, especially if this was your first girlfriend..

I fucked my first 3 girlfriends over and then got played on my 4th and I thought about her for around 2 months.

Go do something.. hang with your friends, go out an get drunk and try and have a good time.

Time will heal it.

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Work on something else. There's other aspects of your life. I've gotten to the point where I don't really sweat women at all, I have other things to deal with. It doesn't mean you need to be distracting yourself 24/7 or bedding 3 women a week but set a path for yourself and don't deviate too far off course.

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