There are rules to pick up. I'm not even talking about Mystery Method, push and pull, none of that crap.

I'm talking about basic alpha male behavior that if you don't perform, the women will laugh in your face/use you.

Like always acting upon what you want instead of telling her (asking her out, starting sex, every move you make), kino'ing, controlling the interaction, making the choices, that kind of stuff.

How many women have you met in your life that for some reason didn't care about these rules? You could just "be yourself" (even if what you were doing went completely against basic alpha behavior) and the attraction still went well?

I'm just interested because I'm almost convinced that these women don't exist. It seems like just about every woman prefers the behavior of an alpha man who controls the interaction (like a male should). The dirtiest girl or the most pious woman still both fall to their knees to someone correctly performing what we call basic game.

Please tell me I'm wrong. My sanity depends on it.

I met one girl who there was a decent attraction between us and I didn't even use any routine nothing. Then I started acting like a classic chump and she moved on in a second.

Your either a chump, natural or pua

There are no other options.

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WEAPON

Kinesics Expert,Certified Personal Trainer and Aspiring PUA

"Who Dares,Wins" British Special Air Service Motto

When I was in Year 7, I was a chubby kid and didn't have a lot of friends or confidence, game was non-existant to me.

For some reason the hottest girl in my class showed an interest in me and told me to add her on msn, gave me her number, told one of my friends that she liked me but my confidence was bad that I couldn't fathom that a girl like that would like me and I just assumed that it was some kind of mean spirited trick. So I did nothing.

Once it was too late I realised that she actually was interested in me, she had wanted to be my girlfriend. I didn't have any alpha qualities back then but I did make her laugh and sometimes that is enough. Sometimes very rarely we find a kindred spirit in the most unlikely of places and someone who would never normally get a chance, is given an opportunity to stand up to the plate.

There are a lot of guys on here who still think like I did back then, they think they are too fat or they are not good looking enough and I'd bet that like me when a beautiful woman has shown an interest in them they have shy'd away from the challenge and added another regret to the list.

That being said, most of the time it doesn't happen that way, so you are better off getting your shit together and building some tight game rather than sitting around waiting for lightning to strike.

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