Hi,

so I find a girl on FB that I used to know as teenagers and now she is a grown divorced woman with a kid. She is hot.

On monday she talked to me on FB and asked if I remembered her and that I have grown to be a handsome man. So I asked her when can we meet up and she said this friday. So I contact her friday morning and we arrange for her to come to my town for a night out. Around noon she texts me she can't find a babysitter and she should cancel so I said ok. That night though I go to a birthday party at a club at her town and she is there but I didn't do or say anything because I thought that it was just a girl that looks like her.

Next day she texts me to ask me if I can come to her town and I say sorry I m going elsewhere but if you want join me. So she accepts my proposal, we go to the club with other friends and she is just not happy there, standing with her drink looking around. If I didn't talk to her she didn't start a conversation. This girl love cocky funny sarcasm so I am doing it the whole night and she says she loves it. She told me twice in the club that I was good looking and both time I said yes I know, something she liked.

Later on that night we head back to her home town to a club but I change the plans and tell her to go to another club something that "shocked" her but she agreed. In the club I try to take a pic of her and she says no, only if we take one together. So we take a pic and after a few minutes a younger dude comes and asks me what is my relation with this girl and I tell him she is my friend. He looks pissed and tells her she is not worth it and leaves.

So we leave the club and go to eat and she teases me and tells me that the number she gave me is the one she gives to people that don't want to bother her. Then she says no i'm joking the number is just for my family and 2 minuted later the phone rings and is the dude from the club. I don't give a shit as you would imagine so I don't say anything and she starts to explain that last night she found a babysitter the last moment and so she went to the club and I say its cool with me coz I don't care what other people do in their lives but she says no I don't want to look like a liar.

What the fuck is wrong with this girl? She lies and she thinks I can't understand she is lieing, she likes to be treated like shit by me and she didn't give me that many IOI's.

Whats your opinion?

Anyone?

Just give it a shot...

She's interested... You should have Kino-escalated, you never mentioned any of that... She said you were good looking twice, she's trying to explain herself, not that she thinks your a fool but maybe she knows and want's to come off better, therefore she cares what you think about her. You got it easy, she's interested, just talk to her and set up a date or something, or this time offer for her to come to your place. Tell her you just got this great new movie, if she asks what movie, just say your going to surprise her, if your intentions are sex, then it wont matter the movie. You need to snatch that up.

The thing is that I know that this girl is the type which if she gets a little attention from someone then she starts acting wierd but if you ignore her and patronise her then she loves it. She likes bad boys for a fact and me calling her up would be a no go in this situation. Yes, the only thing I need from her is sex and that is what she needs as well as I clearly understand.

Why was she sometimes standing expressionless in the club, even turning her back at me and my friends sometimes. The good thing was that she bought me a drink

This is not a oneitis! This is just the weekends story! Just like other similar questions I asked on this forum in previous weeks. So I was thinking not to contact her and if she does then I'll tell her to come along where I am going or come at my place as you said.

Maybe she is into this 22 year old that goes crazy around her? He looks like a bad boy and I know she loves a-wholes so I guess I am in competition?

Should I ignore her or talk to her?

Yea, play harder to get I would say. Seems like she was either possibly shit testing you or playing a game to see how you would react, because she was obviously interested, there was IOI's and she bought you a drink like you said. Tease her, try and continue to be cocky funny but play a bit rougher, a little more hard to get.

Havent texted her yet nor did we talk on FB. Its kind of wierd but I feel that if I give her any attention she will most probably flake...

Good news guys...

I havent called or texted her for 2 days and she talked to me on FB. This is one technique I learned from the forum, not to call her for a couple of days.

Then on FB she was trying to complaint or shit test me and I diverted the conversation with more neutral funny comments. Another thing I learned from you guys.

Then we went out yesterday and she told me that I am friendly with alot of people and you might have goten the wrong impression. A shit test which I recognised to my suprise and answered back with a smooth cool funny and cocky comments thanks to you guys again!!!

I proved my social status by talking to the girls at the table next to us because they asked me to take a picture of them and I chatted them up and they bought me a drink! I socialized very nicely which again was something I neglected before....again you guys tought me this!!!!

I made her quilify for me and after a little bit of kino we kissed.

So next time I think I will F-close but it doesn't really matter since I am getting better at this and to this is what counts...improvment.

Again thanks to this community for everything.