Ok so at work theres this HB9 she split from her bf about 5weeks ago and I helped her a lil bit by "being there" I actually had no intention of trying to hit on her and with my recent experience within the LJBF zones I figured thats where I was with this one so didnt even go there, although it had never actually been mentioned.

Yesterday I just happend to text her whilst out with another girl, saying im bored and did she fancy watching a late night film at movies. She declined coz of the time but then today she was all over me asking me questions and prompting me to comment on her perfume etc etc.

I feel a little bad because she was never interested in me but today I focused purely on everything I learned and tried some new material as well as some old gems I found... I thought oh she'll realise and it'll be cool but instead I've ended up well and truely working her A1, A2 and working her to now being at A3... How cool is that!!

So in the end I figured so were getting on well let me try some advice from Jsmooth (cheers buddy) so I introduced some kino prodding her and saying she was so demanding and touching her shoulder etc etc... then I mixed it up with some "oh your from poland originally... my ex was polish... I cant even talk to you know" turning my back and making her re-initiate conversation, Thanks to Mystery for that one

So anyway I've "given in" and got myself a "date" for next wednesday as we're both working this weekend.... So tonight I duno what came over me I went straight into AFC mode text her saying...

"I duno what it is about you, the devilish good looks or magnetic personality, anyway I think your cool"

and i got the following response...

"why thank you! I didnt know you thought about me in that way?! Your pretty cool yourself Numpty! and no need to pencil me in for next week, you can write it in INK I'm committed to seeing you now. xx"

Stupid question - is this basically saying "its on i like you" on her part??

The problem I think I might have with her is that although I've negged her, built attraction, gained IoIs etc etc I think I'm gonna struggle in the comfort stage because of seeing her each day at work I've got to constantly work on being "cool", on occasions I've deliberatly made some stories to tell my mates around her about girls I've been out with the whole DHV and its great because shes asking "what happend" and I just keep changing the subject which makes her try harder and harder to find out... its just a bit tough to keep up the game till wednesday.

Any advice on this, is she into me? how can I build comfort or try and distract her from me until we go out? Strangely enough I'm not sure if shes just expecting to get her brains fk'd out or if shes actually wanting a relationship... luckily im leaving the job in a month so atleast it wont be awkward LOL

Cheers,

I was just going to write "one-itis" and leave it at that after seeing at first how long this post is.... then I read it, and you seem to be doing ok. Well, maybe not one-itis! Though be carefull! lol Then again, it could be just that you like to write a lot...

Anyway, let us know how it goes. Remember to isolate, and then escalate.

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Update on this - 'cat string theory' ... she played hard to get for so long, I've just gotten bored and so went out with another couple girls since then - no biggie

i think that u forgot to take into consideration that she split from her boyfriend recently.

-if it was a serious relationship then she mite be going that period where she will take the first guy to seem to be a nice guy to her. this guy is the "rebound guy" the guy who is there to fill the loneliness she feels from losing her bf. this guy will get tossed out once she gets back on her feet ready to date again

-if it wasnt a serious relationship then, im guessing that this is a HB that is <7 seeing as how she took a compliment very fondly, and u are on yur way man

Glad I could be of assistance - Cheers Back! "So in the end I figured so were getting on well let me try some advice from Jsmooth (cheers buddy) so I introduced some kino prodding her and saying she was so demanding and touching her shoulder etc etc... then I mixed it up with some "oh your from poland originally... my ex was polish... I cant even talk to you know" turning my back and making her re-initiate conversation, Thanks to Mystery for that one "

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