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Welcome to the mid-atlantic.
"Northern girls" are known to go after what they want, when they want. I don't think the north is a sexually repressed as the south/mid-atlantic is either.
I've found that you have to be the man in this area(I'm from VA, a few hours from Baltimore). Girls rarely, if ever, will approach you, because that isn't the culture around here. On the positive side, girls from around here do make eye contact and are not shy about showing IOIs.
That being said, girls are really friendly once you approach.
Welcome to the bible belt bro.
Girls are just shy here. They make up for it somewhat by being friendly.
That's why a decent game is so important.
When I run into a northern chick, I often find they try to open me. Southern chicks almost never do this. They just lack confidence. It's changing somewhat, and in certain areas with higher education levels it can be different (big cities, college towns, etc..).
The reason is quite simple. For years it was considered extremely socially 'DLV' for girls to openly show interest in men. You know, the whole slutty thing. Still is in some locales. Girls are raised with an incredible ASD, and economics and religion have been used for years to control them. It also had a lot to do with the rural nature of the south. For years many higher status girls would not date or screw outside their own social circles at all for fear of repercussions from the group. Others migrate to large cities where there's a larger degree of anonymity and promiscuity outside of marriage is more acceptable.
This is of course changing, but slowly.
Here, read this. The secret society has existed in the south for along time. It sometimes takes a different skill set, and the knowledge of how to be discreet but still get the message across. And of course the ability escalate under the same circumstances. This is especially true if you're an older guy getting with younger chicks, or already in a socially accepted relationship.
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