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PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 11:57 am 
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Ok.. so you see a girl in a bar/street etc.. you walk over and you open..
I am also aware that should be building comfort, report, interest, sexual attraction etc.. over the course of the conversation..

but..

1) In what order of the above..
2) how long on each
3) good examples of each element..

I appreciate conversations and people differ. but I want to nail an approach in my mind, so I know where I should be taking it at each part..

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PostPosted: Sat Jan 21, 2012 12:22 pm 
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forget all that shit, try mystery method maybe after a few months if you are not already even successful, try out this order for starters

1)approach girls you think is hot, tell her in some way shape or form you find her physically attractive or interesting and want to get to know her, if she seems dis-interested or gives you ''bitch shield'' move to a different girl that is friendly

2)ask her questions about herself that you are interested in finding out, screen her out to see if she has the same hobbies as you, every time she gives you an answer state your preference towards your hobbies, it is ok to hit on her and flirt in between, just think in your head of what your idea of hitting on a girl is, do this and add touching to emphasise points, try to be in a good mood and spread your good vibes

example:
you: hey I love to play soccer, you a soccer kind of girl?
her:no, I have never played soccer
you:that sucks, guess your going to be my new biggest enemy, what sports have you played?
her:none
you: WHAT THE HELL, NO SPORTS, DO YOU LIVE UNDERGROUND?, oh well at least your cute, what do you like to do?


*if a girl keeps giving you dead ends in conversation, just go talk to another girl, probably not even worth asking her for her number, but if she comes back to talk to you after you tell her it was nice meeting her, get her number*

3)she is answering questions about herself, get her number, how do you do this?, give her a compliment not based on looks, and invite her out on a day to hang out
example:
-you're really awesome to talk to, we should hang out next week, do you like sushi?
-you seem like a really easy going person, I'd love to take you out next week, you like go karts?

etc. etc. you get the point, if she is interested in doing something the number just follows


4)ok you got the number and she agreed to the date, now you have your choice move on and follow up on the number or go for a kiss, all depends on the situation, if you got lots of time, you might as well keep talking to her and flirting more and turning her on more/getting her more comfortable with touch, express to her that you want to kiss her in one way or another there are plenty of ways,
-I want to kiss you
-would you like to kiss me (MM routine you can look this up)
-wow your lips look so amazing (just go in for it slowly)
-there is something on your face there (go in for it slowly)
-something about you just, make me, want to kiss you
-are you a good kisser?, really?, scale of 1-10 how good?, ok ill be the judge of that
-ok, lets play a game I call don't slap me, ok on the count of 3 im going to go in to kiss you or you will slap me, 1,2,3, GO (do this one fast so she doesn't have time to think)

keep in mind with kissing try a good 5 times before moving on, not directly in a row, just laugh it off when she gives you the cheek or pulls away, then try again later after a few minutes of talking, don't listen to any objections she has, just keep turning her on and getting her into a good mood

now if you are going on a date, make fucking damn sure you kiss her on the first date MAKE FUCKING SURE, DON'T BE A LITTLE PUSSY CHUMP AT LEAST TRY

5)closing the deal, any time past the number either on a different day or that day, get her to your house or some spot you can be alone with her for sex to go down, you don't have to explicitly state you are having sex with her, but it is better if it is implied (in my opinion), a good cover is just lets watch a movie or have a drink, or eat some dinner, (movie is my favourite netflix is the BOMB YO!!)

if the girl gives you excuses for why she can't be alone with you, give her up to 3 chances if she continues past 3 giving excuses, forget her go meet different girls and re-do the process, if she likes you she will contact you and you just sit back and wait for her to invite you out, don't waste energy on girls that want to waste your time and just get some attention/ego validation

so once she is over, start making all the flirtatious fun your cute teddy bear panda lolly pop rainbow style game, into touching, kill your energy down really low, good eye contact, speak as little as possible, make her comfortable and low energy, go for a nice makeout, feel her up, rub her puss outside her pants, if she is ok with that just keep taking it further, when she stops you take a few steps back turn her on a bit more from a few steps before then try to go further again just keep being persistant, once you have the finger bang going on you are pretty much home free, just get your dick in there


THAT SHOULD BE ENOUGH FOR YOU TO START GAMING WITH, if you want to get really hardcore outer game mode, check out chiefs guide to outer game in the lounge, that is basicly all you need, there is no magical DHV charm all the women in the world way, if a girl is not cooperating just take it as she is not interested, after a few lays like this, look up some more detailed methods and use your experience to help you calibrate in using them to learn how to plow

GOOD LUCK


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 01, 2012 7:35 pm 
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AWESOME!!! Nuff said! I like the emphasis on "don't be a pussy, just kiss them" on a date. A couple of times in my life I have dragged it out and they said afterwards "why didn't you kiss me?" and I thought to myself, what a twat, JUST FUCKING DO IT!!!!

Good advice man!


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