fuck that
all you can do is plan to meet her in town wich is AFC in my opinion.
I consider sending text messages AFC aswell, don't bother with all that small talk crap.
Just turn up at the club the following weekend. (not alone) and accidently bump into her again, "oh its you again

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don't let her know that you are going out of your way to see her
I learnt this from my msn buddie emma lol She says random texts like "hey babe i'll be in *CLUB NAME* fri nite, might c u out x" and leave it like that.
If you text back all of the time, your being easy to get. PLAY HARD TO GET, BUSY GUY, NOT ALWAYS AVAILABLE