Ive been dating a girl for around two weeks, and it has been going perfect, she is younger than me, and hasnt kissed yet, which is quite a shocker because i would consider her an HB 8 (altough i dont really know what that means, im new to the forum, basically she is gorgeous and really special).
So i haven't pressured her physically and been patient when making a move on her, we've dated around 4-5 times, the connection was there, our conversations where endless and flowing, and we had a great time together, besides the fact that we have a LOT in common.
All of a sudden i made (an understandable and moderated) a move on her, and she tried to re-assure me that "we are only friends", i immediatly got pissed at her and disconnected our "relationship"....

I just want to ask, if it is COMPLETELY over? I mean she knows im a great guy, she's said it many times before, how cute i am and how much fun we have together. I am completely over my head for her, I mean she is so different than any other girl I've dated, i would do alot to save our relationship, but I'm not sure i want to be "just" friends with her.

Hey dude,

This is exactly what I got the other day with a girl I started seeing. She gave me the only firends thing and I disconnected all contact with her and I think its the best thing I've done, as I got over it went out last night, kiss closed and number closed on several others.

The thing I found was that I didn't really kino her or escalate so I build attraction to get the date and then I ended up going straight to confort with her without finishing A2 ans A3.

I realise this might be a bit of jargon for you but I recommend reading Mystery's book that will explain more about the attraction and comfort stages right through to seduction.

The best thing I would recommend is to break it down into bits to see where you went wrong, go get another hotty and work it again but correct ur mistakes.

If you want more guidence on this just send me a PM and we'll talk in detail.

Cheers,

I don't think it's over. A freeze-out is a powerful thing, especially if she's used to certain behavior from you. It forces her to re-evaluated. If you don't talk to her for a couple days, there's probably a really good chance she'll call you. At which point, I think you can restart things on your terms.

i froze out a girl who had LJBF'd me after we fooled around for about two weeks. she got a boyfriend in the following two weeks....then she messaged me one day and talked about how we got to do this and do that.

freeze outs work. as long as you have turned yourself into a thought in their life (meaning as long as you have made it so they think about you every so often, and actually CARE that you are ignoring them) then they will come back - if they don't, you message them after however long the session was for.

anyway, this girl was over last night. heh. boyfriend wasn't though ;p

just be smart. read a book and some of these posts. plenty of posts on LJBF zone.

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Oh man. You dated her, had fun with her, made her laugh, did everything A FRIEND would do for two solid weeks. No wonder she put you in the LJBF zone.

Do NOT be afraid to kino escalate and kiss. This should honestly be done the first night with the girl. At the latest, the second time with her.

By the fact that you didn't do that stuff, her mind AUTOMATICALLY put you in the LJBF zone. Basically, her mind is hardwired that way. She had no choice.

Yes, you need to find MM, the Venusian Arts Handbook and READ that. It will teach you the underlying social dynamics that are going on.

Sorry to tell you dude, but chances are she isn't special. She isn't some one-of-a-kind snowflake. You haven't been gaming long enough to meet all of these girls, so until you try it would be hard to say something as bold as this.

To be honest, it probably is over. It's extremely hard to come back from the LJBF zone.. but your best bet is probably going to be to freeze her out. Tell her that real friends don't put such limitations on friends (line from Ross Jeffries) and see how she goes from there.

To be honest, why bother? Seems like you're spending too much time trying to game one girl when your game obviously isn't there yet. Pick up The Game, Mystery Method, Secrets of Female Sexuality (thanks Rye Lee) and start learning this art. Game 10 girls and tell me if this girl is still that special.

Good luck dude.

No, she called me up, very innocently a while ago, and she sayed she saw me as a "friend" from the get-go...

But she's a definite freeze-out