I'm really starting to think it's not possible for everyone to do well at this.

Nothing like getting laughed at to reinforce AA instead of help beat it.

This is why i have AA. Not cause I'm scared of some caveman killing me 40000 years ago, but because every time in my life i've worked up the courage to approach a girl something's gone wrong. it's like there's something in my BL or tone of voice or something that just screams "creepy" or "weirdo".

I think I'm borderline asperger's or something, I really think there is no hope for me to ever be with a decent looking girl that i don't have to pay money to be with me.

I'm definitely no mPUA, but I've got to say that the first thing you should work on is your confidence. It's one of the biggest aphrodisiacs for a woman and one of the biggest turnoffs for a woman if you're lacking it. If you think there's something wrong with you, they'll believe it and look the other way.
I would recommend picking up on lesser attractive women as a confidence booster and for practice. After you've gotten more experience, you can move up to women of more of you're liking.

what ever chicocat21 said is true confidence is the number 1 turn off in a girl in my opinion sadly i am just learning this i used to always put my self down to women (dont ask why) maybe when you approach the HBs you go in with fear and women can sense that try going in thinking that you can get anygirl you want and keep telling your self you are good looking and that girl would be lucky to be with you... as everybody says in the forums YOU ARE THE PRIZE

How many times were you laughed at? How much are you peacocking? Anytime you peacock, you need to present a front that it is perfectly acceptable to wear whatever because that is what you want to do.

If you are being laughed at, when they laugh, roll your eyes and shake your head in disapproval. Eject the set. Walk away and open the immediate next set.

Their loss!!

Anyone can do it. Do not let anyone get you down!

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

I saw a guy get turned down by 10 woman in row before getting with one. He didn't let him phase and went on that is what you need to do to and remember it makes no difference if you get turned down.

EXACTLY!!!!!

now were you peacocking is that why they laughed at you,
I tell you right know don't go out with a Top hat, platform shoes, a fur coat, and tons of women's make up while wearing nail polish. That Well get you laugh at.

Personally I don't think that much peacocking is necessary some cases it's not necessary at all IMO
its really for people who run out of things to say to a woman

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I'm almost as sweet as lemon juice... almost

I think Mystery is the only guy that can pull that particular look off. But that's a good thing.

I like it when I'm laughed at...it means they're paying attention to me. It doesn't matter what someone thinks of my outfit, as long as I attract attention.

I also love it because when they laugh at me they're saying "I wouldn't be caught dead in that" or "I can't believe you're wearing that". That sets me apart from them, and leaves it up to me to spin it the right way.

For example, I was walking into a bar one night and I notice a three set, the guy there looked at me and then looked back to the rest of the set and started laughing a bit. I went up to him and said "Don't I know you from somewhere?", and he played along with it. It was a crap opener, but it worked, since they were already paying attention to me, and were already in a 'good' mood.

Actually, you could turn that "don't I know you from somewhere" opener into a neg. Work it to where he's been someplace that you can neg him about. Or, maybe his performance at some place wasn't up to par, so neg him. I hope you get the idea. Effectivel disarming the AMOG and attracting the girls.

to be good at pick up (having regular success) - it is a very LONG road....

many poeple come in here ask a couple of questions, read 'the game' or watch 2 episodes of 'the PUA' and think - looks or sounds easy....

its not....

you will fail way more than you will succeed.....!!!!

you will get slapped, drink thrown at, told to fuck off..... and yes...... laughed at!!!

any PUA worth his salt has had one of, if not all of these things happen to himself.....

its what he takes from the interaction and his resilience which makes him better......

lord...
if your here for a quick fix, then you may as well leave and stop wasting peoples time - if your here to put in the effort and learn from your mistakes - then we can all do this together...

ming

I said it was a crap opener for a couple reasons...
One: It's way too easy to deny. "Nope, sorry, never seen you before" <turn back to group>.
Two: I didn't give any kind of verbal time constraint, though I did give a few non-verbal clues that I wasn't planning on sticking around for long.

You're right that, if it works, it has potential...you can take it lots of places if the other person plays along.

NO.

Totally uncalled for man. Even if someone is looking for a quick fix, they are still welcome here. Period. We all have different goals.

Yillan, I do see your point, but if you play it correctly, even if they say they don't know you or something like that, you could still work it out. You basically just keep acting like you really do know him, and know of something that he did that would DLV him, but only allude to it, don't come out and say it. In the process of keeping him occupied with that, you should start talking to the girls, asking how they know each other. If they actually do know him, you can apologize and eject, saying he was right, that you had him mixed up. If they don't know him, then proceed.

I realize it sounds shitty, but you're in effect disarming the AMOG and in the process getting the girls attention.

And, if done well, it wouldn't come across as shitty in real life as it sounds on here, lol.

Basically, if the girls didn't know the guy before that night, you can get away with a lot of things.

sit....
now, stay!!!! lol


*puts hands out as trip slaps them* - lol