Seriously what is alpha? I know its suppose to be a leader of a group or something. Its also suppose to be the guy that girls like. And it is suppose to be a someone who is unaffected by stuff. All these qualities seem really random to me. Is there something I am missing?

Look at animals in the wild......Wolves, Lions, Gorillas, etc,etc There is ALWAYS 1 ALPHA male in the group...Its like the "fearless leader" so to speak........Well, humans are the same..You have Alpha's....who are in charge, and lead.....Then I guess you can say then there are Beta's....who want to be Alpha, but are afraid to lead.......I guess the pick up community refers to those as AFC's tho (average frustrated chump)

I spent about 5 seconds googling it.
A male in a pack of wolves, etc., to whom other members submit (in humans: dominant man; a man who controls the activities of a group and to whom others defer)
Alpha male = In social animals (humans are social animals too), the alpha is the individual in the community with the highest rank. Where one male and one female fulfill this role.
or - The dominant male animal or person in a group
All of those seem to have the same the exact same qualities to me, I dont see your confusion?

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Alpha is the guy who gets your girl without doing too much effort and without being extremely handsome.

Alpha is the guy who without being drunk or taking advantage of drunk chicks, goes to a club and ends up making out/having sex with the hottest chick there.

Alpha is a guy who gets rejected and still keeps trying.

Alpha is a guy with confidence in his skills and attributes.

Alpha is a guy who makes decisions.

Alpha is a guy who holds eye contact with a random girl and then approaches her without hesitation.

Alpha is a guy who's willing to loose in order to win.

That's alpha...

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