Theres this girl that i think is cute at my school. I tried talking to her through fb because i never see her, and we had some small talk. I noticed it feeling dry and she wasent interested. One night while getting drunk with some friends i messaged her saying i liked her which wasent really true. (I just thought she was hot) She messaged back saying she was confused and i havent talked to her since. now since the school year just started i see her alot in the halls and she is starting to look really good! I wanna talk to her but it is so awkward between us because of what happened. What should i do?

Well...I guess you can still salvage whats left..

You started talking to her....which is obvious that you were interested, otherwise you wouldnt have talked on facebook...

then you stopped..

then you got drunk and said you like her.....and it confused her.

probably because she was under the impression you were interested, then cut contact, then told her you liked her...you're keeping her guessing....which in essence is good lol


keep in mind, that things are only as awkward as you make them. Start believing that there is nothing awkward about your interactions..and you'll see that its not awkward at all.

You gotta turn it up a notch tho...talk to her. Read some things on this website about "kino" and flirting...you want to escalate things so that she really becomes interested in you. Get to know her...when you make conversation, let her talk.. and if she brings up why you quit talking to her... just tell her you have been busy studying and working out and havnt been on face book much.......if she brings up the time you said you liked her because she's hot......tell her the truth...you were piss drunk that night, and tell her "just because I said that....when I was drunk...doesn't mean I'm that easy any other time!".........if said right, stuff like that usually gets girls going lol

I think you're being a bit too irrational by thinking with your penis instead of using your brain. She is hot and you like her, but guess what, you already came off as creepy. You went from small talk through Facebook to "I like you" without building any comfort.

She didn't say she was confused because you stopped all contact. What she really meant was that she was weirded/creeped out. Building attraction doesn't necessarily have to take too much time, but SOME time is required.

I think you already gave a pretty bad first impression, so getting her will require you to sing side by side with Justin Timberlake to gain some interest.

Verdict (in my humble opinion): Read some PUA material and practice with other women. The more you practice, the more women you'll meet, the better your chances of making things happen with someone else.

Sorry if I sounded harsh or whatever, but I just think that in this case, the effort it'd take to salvage the interaction is not necessary.

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