So I realize that in order to be a leader (20% man as MR puts it), you should be hosting parties and/or organizing events. Logistically, this may actually be very hard for me as 1) we don't have houses at our school, only dorms, and my dorm is off limits for hosting parties. 2) I don't really have the financial resources to be providing alcohol for a lot of people.

What are some other ideas to get me to connect other people together?

go to bars

just mass text everyone saying

Hey everyone's going to "____" come along

There's no way you need to organize something to be considered a leader. I haven't organized a single party except my b-day party (which I had together with a pretty hot girl friend of mine - it's a good idea for others....if you celebrate something with a cool chick, other chicks notice you) and I still can see myself having higher status than most of the males around. I think it rather has something to do with your general reputation in your social circle - girls see me as a player, guys see me as a player. I don't know about a single guy who would have higher status than me, but I can feel there's cca. these 20% of us guys (including me) above the rest. No one is dominating though.

On the other hand, most of the guys here who organize most the parties are 100% providers and that is something you don't want to become. Only one high status male from the social circle organizes parties, but he has game. The other "leader" guys simply come to the parties and pick up the best chicks.

Anyway, what rastafarian said is just what I would do if I wanted to host a party.

Join a club and get involved in it. Most clubs are free or have very low costs. You can also organize other events, there are more things to do in college than party. Poker night, bowling, disc golf, running, biking, basketball ect. Basically whatever you like to do (these are just ideas I have been coming up with/seen). It's not exactly free (except for running) but you can usually get everyone to split the costs. Even when throwing a party you can ask for money from all the guests.

Forgot to mention: there are like 2 bars in town, and no one from my school goes to them. Serious.

@Tippicanoe

I like the idea of hosting other events like bowling, basketball, golf, etc. I think those are some good ideas.

The parties here are pretty much a free for all. Everyone just goes around dorm hoping.
What about pregames though? What would the logistics of that be? I have a couple friends whom I pregame with. But honestly I want to capitalize on the pregame because I read that it's a great way to meet new people.

Or, even better. How do I get invited to other pregames?

Not sure. I rarely pregame. Good question, maybe someone else can help you out there.

Hi, you don't need a party. I have many experience from college game. Invite college girls on a drink (caffe or something like that) in a pub or bar, and talk with them. I was three year in college and all the time we went in pub with girls, this chicks was from 8-10 on scale. And have great conversation with them

I'll keep this in mind. I'm not 21 yet, but will be soon. I definitely plan to go to bars and pubs. Not very many girls from my school go, but a ton of chicks from nearby colleges go there (and they're much better looking too, lol). Thanks for the advice.