Kinda been evaluating my approach to situations recently. I have fucked up a lot of situations in the past by coming off eager.

Recently banged a girl within 2 hrs of meeting her from online. She stays the night and it's one of those things - you can't tell if it's a one night deal or more. She was all over me the whole night like she was in love with me. But I can tell you right now this chick is not looking for marriage any time soon.

So the classic problem - how do you follow up a rather intense first date like this? I purposely made no mention to her of meeting again. Don't wanna be too eager, etc.

Do you want her as a girl friend or fuck buddy? Two different answers.

hmm...good question...I'm leaning towards fuck buddy. My reading of the situation is she is in mess around mode -not girlfriend mode. Would love your insights.

well if you don't mind breaking her heart then you can do plan 1, it works in both cases


plan 1. Call her back or text her no more then 24hours after you hump her and ask her to some venue or event casually.

if you just want a fuck buddy just make sure you DONT call or text her within 48hours after you hump her because it sets up BF/GF expectations

Thats right the only difference in how you proceed is setting expectations correctly assuming your not a dick. I know one guy whos a good PUA and he makes every girl fall in love with him then bails on them soon after. I don't like doing this more for my mental well being then theirs.

Anyway your in the drrivers seat so you actually don't need to game her very much, unless shes just a "Party girl." shes going to want to see you again without very much gameing, shes already cashed in her biggest chip in bed, she cant be coy now.

That's some really solid advice - thanks man.

Always good to take a step back and tap into the collective knowledge here...

no problem, let me know what happens, but I think she will be more then happy to see you on your terms now with very little gaming

Detox you were spot on. set up another weekend of fun with her. great advice.

I have a suspicion she's a party girl based on statements she's made, but it's all good.

Cool,

Thank you, I love being right.

With party girls you have to make sure that the sex is good and you keep it fun and casual, and don't hassle them, they tend to be flaky. If you can do that then you can make those sex relationships last a very long time.