sex without IOI - you are in her circle



Users browsing this forum: Bing [Bot] and 138 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions




Author Message
PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 7:24 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Sat Sep 10, 2011 9:00 am
Posts: 80
Yahoo Messenger: bizsols.m@gmail.com
AOL: Pitampura
I don't know how pertinent this is for PUA, but there is a girl and she is presumably a slut. She is forming relations based on status, she was attracted to 1 guy but it didnt work out, but to maintain relations with others in her circle, she promised them sex once she leaves the guy though those guys are just plain bad guys who try to pressurize people but haven't had any girl till now. Since I see this girl now going different places with them, is it possible for girl to just do sex without any interest.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 7:57 am 
Offline
Moderator

Joined: Sat Jul 02, 2011 4:37 am
Posts: 3276
listen, go read up on what asd is,

stop trusting ioi's and iod's, some girls love validation and will flirt just for attention, some will give ioi's when they are genuinely interested, some girls will give iod's to absolve themselves of responsibility for you escalating and are actually into you, some girls will give genuine iod's because they are actually dis-interested

just because she says she is not interested, doesn't mean she is not interested, just because she says she is interested, does not mean she is interested, just because she says she never kisses on the first date, does not mean she doesn't have sex on the first date

NEVER LISTEN TO WHAT IS COMMING OUT OF THE MOUTH, reguarding who a girl likes, dis-likes, and what her views on guys and relationships are, this is why they say never ask a woman for advice on women, they tell you the ''safe'' answer not the real one, because if she said, Hey I want a really good looking guy with a big dick, who agressively trys to sleep with me so that I am free of responsibility for that happening, she would feel like a slut and there for guilty, so she says a sense of humor, or I like smart guys, or confidence (basicly means the above)

ask yourself a few questions, will she talk to you?, if the answer is yes, you are good to go to the next one, will she be alone with you?, if the answer is yes you are good to go to the next one, will she have sex with you?

you have to learn to get passed each of these questions, you will get better at making the answers yes, the more you practise and improve your physical appearance, popularity, personality, confidence, and monitary value

pressureize people?, she certainly would have nothing to do with a bunch of guys if she felt pressured, unless the benifits outweighed the negatives for her, that is needy behavior, and it turns girls off big time, hanging around them all the time never giving them space, cant be without them, desperate for them,

there is a difference between guys that are being assertive with what they want, and actually going for it, while staying congruent with their intent, and remaining persistant, and a needy guys who pressure girls into things, the needy guys will call every day, and if they ever get the girl, they will beg and beg and beg, (this is a fairly extreme example but you get the point)

if the girl is responding to these guys, and you want to get with her, then just do what she responds to, not what you think she would like based on what she says, and as stated above, if she wont talk to you, she obviously wont be alone with you, and if she wont be alone with you, she obviously wont have sex with you, so if you hit a road block with one of these questions, chances are it is time to move on to a girl who is more interested, and get the answers to these questions faster

in the end, it is either a yes or a no, it is your job to figure out what the answer is, you are succeeding if you are getting to the answer


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 9:03 am 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Sat Sep 10, 2011 9:00 am
Posts: 80
Yahoo Messenger: bizsols.m@gmail.com
AOL: Pitampura
Hey thanks, that's an excellent explanation, really opened my mind to way things work.
Quote:
you have to learn to get passed each of these questions, you will get better at making the answers yes, the more you practise and improve your physical appearance, popularity, personality, confidence, and monitary value
First up I am starting on this game with understanding of PUA, she is quite an experienced girl, do you recommend me following up on her.

Though my friends(bad boys) haven't had any girl till now, but they are able to proceed to certain extent(external relocation)?

So its all dependent on what works with her and no pre conceived notion. ?


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sun Nov 06, 2011 11:06 am 
Offline
Moderator

Joined: Sat Jul 02, 2011 4:37 am
Posts: 3276
Quote:
Hey thanks, that's an excellent explanation, really opened my mind to way things work.
Quote:
you have to learn to get passed each of these questions, you will get better at making the answers yes, the more you practise and improve your physical appearance, popularity, personality, confidence, and monitary value
First up I am starting on this game with understanding of PUA, she is quite an experienced girl, do you recommend me following up on her.

Though my friends(bad boys) haven't had any girl till now, but they are able to proceed to certain extent(external relocation)?

So its all dependent on what works with her and no pre conceived notion. ?
that question really depends on you, if you are asking what would I do in your situation (starting out), I would go try to deal with my AA, and go do cold approaches, social circles have social consequences, better to get your game tight first, then hit the social circles, in cold approach you can experiment and likely you will not put so much emphasis on one girl, if you only have one girl that you are in contact, chances are you will care about the outcome too much, put too much importance on her, and you will display neediness,

when you don't know the girls, you can experiment saying and doing what ever you want, and if you fuck up and she rejects you, big deal, move onto another girl, she doesn't even know you anyways, once you find your way of getting girls, put it to use, but if you see something you like, try to go for it, just don't expect you will get it just because you try, and remember there are plenty of girls out there, focusing on one at a time, is very foolish, and will cause you alot of grief and unnessicary investment, (that is until you are confident in your abilities and have an understanding of flakes, etc. if she is a flake, don't waste your time putting in more effort then she does)


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 4 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link