So I met this girl when I went sarging, I'm 20 shes 19. I went direct told her she was fucking hot. We flirted from there (in a salsa bar) danced, went out back ,mad kino then isolated at end of night for a makeout close.

I call her for Day 2 on phone and she sounds happy and excited to go out again. Her plans fall through and it doesnt happen. Now I text her for 1st time and she takes HOURS to respond.

Me: Hey listen, I like your energy and had a great fucking time. To bad plans didn't work out this weekend.
Her : =(4 hours later) Thanks you made my day! I had fun to, Im sorry it didnt work out =(
Me: Whats your facebook email?
Her: (3 hours later) Haha its _______
Me: Cool I'll get on that when I get home, call me tomorow
(That was last night and no call or response but she accepted me on facebook, like wtf)


This chick is hot and she was into me like no fucking other that night. She stands out as a person I want to get to know not just fuck. But why the hell am I not getting a day 2 or call back. Help me out here guys.

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G4mer

You're pursuing her too seriously by projecting that you expect her to want to keep up communication with you...that's a major turnoff for girls. As soon as they detect you have expectations, they will not meet them. Such as telling her to call you. You need to keep things as low pressure as possible and convey to her that you have no expectations of her...only then will she want to come to you.

(0) Very demanding.
(1) Too soon. You've only made out once.
(2) Too much. Even when you had an awesome time do not exaggerate.
(3) Too sad and a little needy.
(4) Pretty fucking insincere I'd say.
(5) I'd never ask for a facebook as it takes all mystery away and also pretty needy.
(6) I've learned that when a girls texts hahaha in 90% of the times it's their way of reducing tension. It's a definite IOD.
(7) There is nothing for her to respond to.
( 8 ) You're being very demanding which only works if the girl is really really interested in you.


Bad text game, maby you can recover by phone. Don't know, you'll have to find out.

Good shit, my textgame for me is a major sticking point, Im really confident in person but I almost fear textgame. How do i fix this.

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G4mer

ok, i got some ideas for you man,

1)next time you get to making out, ask her home, not for her number, the goal is not numbers, it is sex, what is she going to do?, say no?, if she does why do you want her number anyways? as long as she is not with a bunch of friends (that will save her from you cause vagina protection is their job and thats why they roll in packs), asking her home when she is all hot from the make out will make it much harder for her to say no, the less time you have sex after you get her horny, the better, if her state breaks it ''could'' fuck you up, emphasis on could

cause after all, it is getting late, and you have drinks at your place, and a really great song you want to show her

2)if you are going to get her number (cause you want to get to know her before sex, or because the group is going to protect her vagina), don't make out before hand, maybe one kiss, if you turn her on too much, you might activate the asd, and she will think, man, if I go out with this guy again, we could end up having sex, and that would make me a slut, sluts are bad

good luck