Ive known this girl for about a month

I told her i liked her. she said she didnt know

now she said she'd like to be friends but shes hesitant

i dunno what to do

im lost

shes so confusing.

distance yourself before its too late..

thats about all you can do


see, when a girl says she just wants to be friends...it could be a couple reasons..but most of the time its because shes not attracted to you.

you are failing at making her feel attraction towards you.


so distance yourself...only talk to her once in a while...add some mystery back into her perception of you and your life..

after a few weeks/months of her not seeing you and barely talking to you.....you can start over.....but make sure you dont fall into the same pattern.


thats just what i know thru my experiences...your situation may be a little different than mine...so i'd also suggest searching the forum for things related to your situation...theres plenty of it...and alot of guys around here with lots of experience who will be able to help

You can also just plunge in and when she's not digging it (which she probably will) you say I'm sorry and then do it again 10 minutes later. By then she'll either be convinced you're a man and accept your boldness or go away and then you'll have a clear answer.

But start by not soaking up everything she says.