I met this girl in school we talk a bit and I got her BBM, when I go to pick her up from class to talk guys go up to her and hug/kiss her on the cheek and I get a little jelly. We bbm throughout the day constantly. I dont know where to start in this forum for posts that I can read and use in a CHRONOLOGICAL ORDER. Also what do I do? Do i text her ? how do i make her chase me to text me etc. How do I build attraction? How do I flirt and most importantly how do I make her not be bored with me she has a lot of guys on her, but she chooses to only talk to me; also her boyfriend cheated on her a couple of times about a year ago and she stopped dating. WHAT DO I DO!?!?!/

I have got no clue what BBM is but if she's in your school try to create opportunities where you and her can talk in private.
What goes for all the other questions you asked: you simply can not learn all gaming techniques in a short period of time. You can read stickies here on this forum, it will help you. Look for keys to the vip on youtube, it will help you. But it takes time.