So, I've learned in the past three months (when I really started going to bars and trying to learn social skills) that apparently a lot of gay guys want to fuck me.. and I have no idea why.

A: Gay guys are way more open than women and women think I'm cute too but they're just not approaching me.

B: I'm sending off some kind of signals that says "HEEEY BIG BOY OVER HERE!!!"

My female/stylist friend thinks it's because I look vulnerable (what ever that means) and I think it's because I'm 23 and I look young. Oh by the way, most of these gay guys are middle aged dudes.. I've only had one young one hit on me. Now, I'm not homophobic and if you're a dude into dudes.. that's fine, but damn I'm kind of getting the opposite results here -_-

Maybe a couple of pictures of myself would help people out.. maybe people see something I don't.

On a side note. That same friend/stylist thinks the facial hair is a good idea and helps, what do you think?

http://imageshack.us/g/849/corey12.jpg/

I believe it's 70% behavior/body language and 30% looks that mark someone gay.
You seem to have soft features. Try to look more serious (or harsh) and keep your posture straight. Plus, avoid eye-contact with other men for a while. At least test it out.

my suggestion for your looks: Shave your hair and facial hair & shape your body up.
I always tend to see bald guys less gay

Considering the bigger nose/bigger ears, I don't think bald would be a decent look on me

lol I get hit on by gay guys all the fucking time. I am not gay and it grosses me out when I see some PDA, but I dont have a problem with it. I just tell them right away that I don't swing that way.

Next time it happens, tell the guy your straight and that you wanna talk to this girl. Then point at some hottie and ask for his help. I took a girl to a gay bar once, for the first 2 hours of the date, before we stumbled into the bar, I was trying to get her to open up sexually. Trying my hardest to turn the convo sexual but I was getting no results, she would just get uncomfortable and shut down and I would have to change the subject. So I am in this gay bar, feeling a bit weird but the girl was into it so I just went with it. After a couple drink I had to take the SCARIEST fucking piss of my life. Anyways, after 2 mins tops I come back and the bartender and some guy had my date talking about blowjobs, her fav positions, ect.. She was also way more into the kino and way more open. Shook the guys hands, they told me I was welcome and me and my date went straight back to her place.

So if you're cool with their lifestyle and you let them know your straight, gay guys will help get you laid lol.

Take it as a compliment. Why are you turning it into a negative? They are saying you look good. Is it because you are homophobic? Be the cool guy who doesn't care what people do with their lives. How many times do we just try to talk to a girl not sure how she feels about us? Gay guys really don't have gaydar, just like PUA's can't just smell a horny chick from a mile away. God I wish I had that super power, forget super strength or speed, or a magic ring. Maybe invisibility