Help using "social proof" tomorow night...



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PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2011 5:56 pm 
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Usually when I go out I'm with a mate but tomorow night this girl I know has invited me out for her friends birthday, its going to me me and about 7 girls. Usually id feel awkward just hanging out with girls but according to social proof if I'm seen having fun and getting on with girls then I have "social proof" what I'm asking is how best to harness this tomorow night in a bar?

As for making a move on the girls I'm with, not saying I wouldn't but I have history with one of them (we are friends) and don't want her feeling uncomfortable so ruling that out unless I have to.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2011 12:58 am 
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well...if your not dating any of these girls..the idea is you need to sit with them..dance with tem etc..be seen to be having a laugh and a good time...etc...then hit on women in front of your group..
hit on women at the bar on the dance floor.
see
it works both ways...
the targets will see your with women and see your a safe guy and a popular guy and a possible player...all of which women actually find attractive.

the bonus is your group will see you hitting on women.,which will elevate you in their eyes as a player. You will then find your getting put out of the friends zone with tthe group and now be seen in a high value sexual way..which is what you ought to be looking for...this will cause competition withing the group..and if u have skills you could fuck several members of that group as well as whatever random girls you hit on in the club.

Its a win win...if done correctly.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 04, 2011 1:01 am 
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Go in with the mind set that you will not let the party SPAM control you. You want the party to be under your control. Of course, you will have to step back a little because it is someone else's party, but you can still go in with the mind set that you will do your best to stand out and not become another body just existing in the party.

Say hi to everyone you see while walking towards the group and have the girl that you know introduce you to the others. Try to find a way to inject yourself into one of their conversations and just take the reigns from there! After they get comfortable with you, you could ask one of the girls to dance.

The social proof factors in when women at the party start to see you as valuable because other women are showing that they approve of you.

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