An interesting situation arose today and I'd like some feedback on how you guys would handle it and how you think I handled it.

Basically a couple of months ago I met this girl, an HB7 with a good personality and I ran good game on her and secured a second date. However, in the interrim period I picked up a gorgeous HB9 and began seeing her (we're getting kind of serious now) and I guess I flaked on her a couple of times. This seemed to make her really keen on meeting up with me so eventually I relented and we met for coffee, had some nice chat but I was there with no intention or pressure of doing anything with this girl but I was still being cocky funny etc. One time I did invite her over when I was drunk (not explicitly for sex but it was implied) and she agreed before last minute flaking, which didn't particularly bother me.

Now, also, I had recently recommended "The Game" to a friend of mine's brother and he read it and became intrigued and read some other PUA stuff. Unbeknownst to me he has harboured a major crush on this HB7 girl for a long time, and he's firmly in the friendzone. Obviously he was eager to spill the beans on The Game and make me out to be some kind of womanising, insensitive arsehole. I will concede that I am a womaniser, but that is all

Tonight our text conversation went thus:

NOTE: She is a very posh, upper-class english girl, hence the essay like text conversations.

HB7: "Has this genuinely been you talking? Or words from the ladypulling book you gave to ****? Because I really can't fucking tell. I don't know what Miss America (the HB9) would make of that now"

Me: "Haha, The Game? It's a good book, but not quite a ladypulling guide. And yeah, I'm obviously using my super powered pick up artist moves, worth a try I'm just busting you, besides, I like spending time with you, sue me x"

HB7: "Busting me? And that means? Some american slang you've picked up? Oh you, thats very charming but from a couple of coffees? I don't understand you. And I'll sue you for everything I can get x"

Me: "I'm guessing ***** has told you I'm a rampant womaniser? haha. But hey, you're an attractive girl, I feel no need to apologise for hitting on you. Yeah, but the conversation flowed some what, they were pleasant afternoons x"

HB7: "It was just an instinct. I felt a bit mugged off when he said he'd heard that I had "stood you up" which I related to you inviting me over. Which doesn't sound great to my ears, followed by knowledge of this attractive foreigner. Bloody hell! Didn't get that vibe from you, just banter. It was pleasant, I'll give you that x"

Me: "Huh? He heard you'd stood me up? How did he hear that? Well I suppose I wasn't outright hitting on you But I found you attractive and interesting enough to hang out for coffee etc. But no worries, if nothing else we can always be good friends x"

HB7: "I have no idea, but I didn't like it haha. Not one to be played. Well here we are again, good friends or nothing else, kinda have to see each other to know one another. So man up and ask to see me! x"

Me: "I'm not a "player" I dislike the term. Haha, ok then, I'm asking x"

HB7: "I'm going to hold you to that sir. Good. I'm saying yes x"

Has this type of thing ever happened to anyone? How did you guys handle it if so?

I thought I did pretty well, she wants to see me again so I think things are still on. I'll see how it goes when I see her, but I genuinely don't mind if it's just as friends.

Good you hold your ground.

I would told her” Are you that easy, shallow that even a book that generalize how to pickup women had an success on you” Please don’t believe on those bedtime stories... Because if you are im feeling a bit dissapointed"

But at this point she probably vengefull mode, I would leave, some girls are too emotional maybe she keeping in together to explode in front of you. No girl like to be played like that.

Ps: Please kill that son of bitch that stab you in the back. I would txt him and saying “you know with that little prank you killed your chances with that girl”

I genuinely don't know how he heard about her "standing me up." I only said she stood me up as a lighthearted joke after she flaked on me, I meant nothing by it. But I only said it to her and haven't discussed anything to do with girls in my life in any detail with anyone but my closest friends.

But yeah, I'm not really impressed with the guy, I don't tend to shout about PUA from the rooftops.

The texting resumed to our usual playful banter, but I'll definitely heed your advice and be wary. Besides, I'm already seeing a gorgeous girl with whom I would be exclusive were she not returning to the states next month.

You did very well in the convo, frankly your underestimating yourself and did much better than most would have. Maintain the line that you are this womaniser (kinda as if your playing along with a joke that she started) and you'll be fine. You got nothing to worry about with this other dude either. Total AFC sign that he gave you up, also to your advantage as it puts the attention on you 'Are you the real deal or not?' and off him. Dumb arse.