Hello guys,
i've got introduced to the PUA-community by a friend of mine a few months ago and i've read a lot since them, but there's something i didn't understand: Nicknames.
How do you choose them? In which situations do you use them?...

can someone help me?

if you find something interestingly amusing about them, you can tease and make fun of them during the conversation. when it comes to the number close, as you save her number on to your phone, tell her that you are going to give her a nickname her. the beginning word (sometimes first 2 words) should be related to the tease and then say 'girl' at the end of the nickname. for example, i met a girl a while ago that loves the ben and jerry's phish flavoured ice cream, so when i text usually i say "Hey Phish Face girl" lol. It's very easy and shows that you are playful.

hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude

1. Pick something remarkable. I tend to take her profession or her attitude.
2. Pretty much every first text I send. Also in some real life situations.

You can overdo it, but as long as you stay creative it's pretty safe to use them multiple times.

Nicknames for yourself will be whatever sounds good and describe you in some way, without sounding as if you made it up to impress. Apart from that we just use them on the forum.

For girls, take whatever characteristic you associate with her and make it her nickname, unless it is too positive. I use it to a ridiculus extent, describing her. Like a nickname could be "Woman-with-dog" or just whatever name, it doesnt even have to make sense. I rename girls all the time. And if my wing enters I introduce them as girl number 1 and girl number 2. I just met them, why would I wanna remember their names... They havent got any value yet...

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thank you a lot guys i wrote it down so that i can look at your advices before i go out the next time.

But can you explain me a bit more about your own nickname? ( like 'Gambler' 'Style' 'Papa' .....)

It's just a nick-name bro! I don't use them cause they sound lame. Think big black guy called Tiny or Mad Dog. It's just a name someone has chosen. Normally pick up is researched by nerdy type guys, so they come up with names for themselves. I personally wouldn't go up to a chick and tell her my name is "Blue Dragon 1957". I always thought is was lame and would come off sketchy.

Your own nickname can be whatever... It can be Big Papa Smurt or 12345 or anything you like... Doesnt matter.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Of course you wouldnt.

I'm acutally reading the game by Neil Strauss( i just joined the coommunity) and they never use their real name but always a nickname, and i was thinking if i should do the same...

How do you guys manage it?

Don't be weird, just use your real name.

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The nicknames are as I said used on the forum. It is for us to hide behind when curious girlfriends start sneaking around.

I certainly dont go around in real life calling myself Ezo.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn