So me and and this HB8 have plan to watch a movie at my place tonight around 7pm, I sent her a txt around 6:10

Me: Are you coming HB8?
HB8: Holy crap I slept in a little too late dammit. I woke up just now too Sorry. we're gonna have to reschedule
Me: Lol I said 7, you can still make it
HB8: I was actually going to take the bus there but I forgot to look up the directions too..ugh I've been slacking. Sorry!

I gave her a call 20 min later to reschedule, she didn't pick up.

That does look a little shady, Just try rescheduling, and if she "sleeps in too late" again, you know its no good.

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SHe isnt very interested. Dont call her again.

I dont like when people make plans and then dodge them last minute...granted I've done it before lmao but if you're REALLY interested, hit her up in a week or 2 and say you're going HERE to do THIS and see if she wants to join you...If she doesnt want to join you, delete her number, and meet a new girl while you're out on your adventure

It literally does not matter if her excuse is legit or not.

If her excuse is legit, then you should treat it as being legit and respond accordingly.

If her excuse is not legit, then treating it as if it is legit will give you the right mental frame for continuing your courting attempts with her...because she could have any number of reasons for making up an excuse, and even if that reason was her not wanting to see you, if you say the right things you could change her mind.

Fretting over the legitimacy will only reveal itself in your tone of voice and the things you say, and the last thing you want to do is call her out or let her know that you know it was fake, because then it immediately gets awkward and becomes a situation that is much more difficult to recover from.