i skimmed over something earlier on this and now i cant find it to save the life of me but how do you invite a chick ( ie. to a movie, show, party, something casual ) without giving her the chance or option to say no?

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Jay.0

You kidnap and tie her to a chair. Works 100% of the time.

Basically, theres almost no way to get a women to go with you 100% of the time

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Jay why do you have to force her to go out with you?

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Walk Hard

lol im not trying to force her just find a way to invite her so she leans more towards showing up instead of passing

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Jay.0

I have the same problem with my one-itis. This is what I did, I manipulated the idea by repeating it over and over, that I am hungary. I then asked my bro if he wants to go, then looked at her said so you in or out, we gonna leave with or without, eventually she said okay Ill come. I go to college with her so it might be different, but if you make her think she wants to do it and your just coming with and even more so she wants you to come because youll show her something or make he rlaugh idk then you win!

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I'd say that if you are super aggressive about inviting her it could be a turn off. She may agree with you, but she will do so reluctantly and then you will have some resistance to overcome.

It's better to simply ask her. "Hey do you want to go on a date with me? I think you are cool and I'd like to get to know you. But if you aren't interested I totally understand, and feel free to say no."

You let her know that she can say no, because if you don't she might not feel comfortable telling you no, and then she will ignore you, which is terrible. Plus being direct will put you on the same page very quickly. If she says yes, then you know 100% if she is interested or not. If she says no you will get over it very quickly and then move on. Additionally you still have the option to stay friends if you wanted. But if you manipulate you could spend a lot of time trying to get with a girl that doesn't want you, which will ultimately lead to feeling terrible because she doesn't want you no matter how many games and tricks you pull. Which is kind of pointless considering the millions of beautiful women in the world.

Sometimes it's more attractive to just throw the dice and hope she likes you. She has probably already made up her mind anyway. Manipulating women is more about social pressure and you don't want to be that guy that NEEDS a woman and cant handle a no. It's healthier if you spend less energy manipulating and more energy improving yourself. Because then improving yourself is like getting more dice to throw, and you will hit more often.

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Walk Hard

1) keep it low pressure. girls get scared of pressure. avoid calling it a date even if it obviously is, or taking her out to a really fancy place. dont remind her multiple times or act desperate in any way.

2) keep it fun. dont invite her to do something she's done a million times before or go a place she's been a million times. she will be associating the vibe of the place you take her to with you.

picking a good spot in #2 that will be natural to suggest, low pressure, and is custom picked based on the personality of the girl to be exciting to her is the best way to ensure she will come.

3) if she declines, have an alternative prepared and try to set up then. this way the two invitations blend into one and it makes you look less weak and desperate than re-inviting her out every couple days. otherwise, you can wait a week and try again. make sure to sound busy and happy and fun inbetween.