This is a really annoying problem I have when ever I get a girls number I'm way to afraid to text because I'm feel I'm coming off needy,especially when the girl has a boyfriend.

Example:I was at a party the other night and my friend managed to bring three girls from a bar he was in to the party I was at (Let call them HB 1,2 and 3), the girls left after about 20 minutes but not before I talked to HB3 and found out she had a boyfriend I think I ran a boyfriend destroyer it just came out because i was kind of drunk she didn't seem very enthusiastic about him.They left shortly after but not before my friend got HB1's number and they told us that they were going to a bar in the town Sunday.

We went there and sure enough they come in shortly after only two of them though
(HB 2 and HB3) the girl my friend n-closed was working, we stayed with them for about an hour and a half a bit of playful kino and chat and my friend got HB2's number so they could meet us in the club.

Later on in the club I ran into them and brought them to the dance floor I n-closed HB2 they said they we're going to come back to my friend's house,I had an idea they wouldn't, texted her later when the club was closing and she said they were both gone off with their boyfriends she didn't even mention him before.So here I am with a girls number who has a boyfriend and I don't know what to do should I text or just leave it, I think she is attracted but I'm not sure,Even if she's not it's always fun to make new friend's.

Thought's

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The best way to initiate kino, is...

step 1) Take your hand
step 2) Place hand on girl
step 3) ?????
step 4) PROFIT
-Pumpington

A. It depends on how you write your SMS. If you beg to see her, you are needy, if you just send an offhand SMS, you are not.

B. I fail to see how this could be called leading. To suggest something is not leading but rather initiating a conversation.

C. You suffer from analysis paralysis. Why dont you try it out? What is the worst that can happen, that you lose that set? If you dont send the SMS, nothing is guaranteed to happen.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Yeah I was just stuck for a word
I couldn't agree more it's a bad habit I need to break out of.

She text me an hour later asking me what my second name was when she had already friend requested me on facebook.

Her:What's your second name?
Me:Fortesque Fothergill Wordingbottom the 3rd.
Her:*My actual second name*
Me:That's it.

I know that last part was lame but I didn't want to come across as too try hard.

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The best way to initiate kino, is...

step 1) Take your hand
step 2) Place hand on girl
step 3) ?????
step 4) PROFIT
-Pumpington

Well, why lie about your second name... Mine is lame but I carry it with "pride/uninterest" it is just a name...

I use this SMS when i initiate "Aliens are coming to kidnap the sexiest of us... You'll be fine, I just wanted to say that Ill be gone for a few days."

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I was joking

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The best way to initiate kino, is...

step 1) Take your hand
step 2) Place hand on girl
step 3) ?????
step 4) PROFIT
-Pumpington

Yep, I got that... But even so, joking about your second name can also be seen as avoiding the topic, a sign of insecurity...

It is OK to joke about almost everything but when it may be seen as an attempt to avoid answering a question, it is better to just answer...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

I'll take that on board.

Thanks man.

_________________
The best way to initiate kino, is...

step 1) Take your hand
step 2) Place hand on girl
step 3) ?????
step 4) PROFIT
-Pumpington