I finally f closed the other night. We were both virgins. I was really nervous so I had a tough time keeping it up. I did a lot of foreplay, got here really wet so that was good. Anyway, I put it in her, but knew i couldnt last long because i was losing my erection bc of nervousness. So I finished up quickly. I still wanted to satisfy her though. So I fingered her and went down on her a whole bunch. I ate her out and got her to the point of almost coming. She was so close, i think, she was yelling so loud. I'm sure the neighbors heard. But anyways I never got her to cum. I had a few questions if anyone could help: Are virgins harder to make cum? I tried to go all out, pleasuring the g spot and clit. I read books on this and I know she loved this. Whats the easiest way to make her come manually, gspot or clit? What else do I need to know about sex with a virgin? What else can I do to make it so im not so nervous? probably more experience and stuff right?

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-Supern0va1

1) Yes, it is more difficult for virgins to orgasm because you have to be completely relaxed and emotionally comfortable in order to reach climax.

2) The best way to make her enjoy the sex is to enjoy the sex yourself, because they can sense how you're feeling and if you're incredibly turned on this will turn her on too. The best way to enjoy the sex yourself is to not be self-conscious, don't be hesitant and squeamish...just fuck her brains out.

3) As for oral sex, different girls like completely different things. I could give you a tutorial but I think this forum is not for discussing such details.

Good advise. We have done it a few more times and I still haven't been able to get her off. Partly bc I'm really new to sex myself, but i keep getting better and better. Is there a best way that makes girls come the easiest?

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Well, now that you did it, you know why you were nervous, but can also see why you should not be. So be easy next time..relax, stay calm, and enjoy it all.

Also a bit of advice..PAY ATTENTION TO HOW SHE REACTS!!

It doesnt matter if you guys are having sex, if you're fingering her, performing oral, whatever it is...pay close attention to how she reacts.. most likely, since shes already letting you do all these things, shes enjoying it...but pay attention and find out what works best! Once you find out what works best, or what she likes best, based off of her reactions, continue to do that..You'll get her to cum eventually.. Alot of girls are harder to get off than guys are anyway...so dont get discouraged.