basically there's this girl i met about 2 months ago a decent 7 possibly 8 and i have been talking to her on and off since but cos i have a lot going on right now i didn't pursue it... it was very brief maybe only a couple times a month but...

we found out we would be going to the same college but i didn't have time to talk to her cos i got hit by a car on the monday of my second week back so i was out of college for 3 weeks, BAM! shes all worried and shit and kept texting me far more than even my best mates so i was like ideal IOI =P

but since i came back to college i haven't seen her cos shes in the year below and we have different time tables, so we kept texting but sometimes she would be real flirty and give me text IOI's and other times she wouldn't even text back and then today... i saw her at the train station and we were both getting the same train and no one else was about...

now this is where the confusion starts... (sorry for the essay i tend to get like this)

i start playing the game... i sit down on the bench next to her and lay fully down rather than next to her so she keeps trying to put her feet up on me IOI then she comes and tries to lie next to me (awkward cos it was a small bench and im 6,3 and hench ) she asks me how my GF is which i take as an IOI and she kept touching me and stuff and everytime i stared into her eyes she would hold my stare which is a good IOI but then on the way home after we got off our seperate stops i texted her and she replied "ha " then i replies and i havent had anything for about 3 hours i dont know where i should go with this....

Failure to escalate... the leading killer.

Women will view your failure to escalate as one of two things. Either they will think you are shy and quirky, or WORSE they will take it as you not being interested. She probably felt like she was really putting herself out there and got dismissed. Now she has to act super disinterested to save face. Girls are confusing and stupid. : P

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

yeah but i was bed ridden for a good two weeks so i couldn't really escalate i nearly lost an ear ffs but yeah and this was like the second of 2 times i have seen her since i been back so there wasnt really much time to escalate and now i dont see any openings :/

You should have been making out on the train, bro.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.