I cant start banter with her if she agrees with me on that, she's not that creative. or that I say, You could be a model. Then she responds with. I'am not that pretty. What do i do?

Or I could wrestle you down and beat you in a tickle fight and she goes, Ya im not really that strong. When in reality she will knock every dude she meets down pegs and is actaully very phsycally aggresive. I cant get her to react to me, challenge me, or fight back.

Btw, We've already made out. Wtf

You: "you could be a model"
Her: "Nah I'm not that pretty"
You: "Actually yeah you're right, you're not"

Say it in a cheeky funny way and you should get a reaction out of her unless she's emotionally numb to the world. Basically whenever a girl says something negative about her appearance she's fishing for a compliment, if you just give her one every time this happens you'll end up looking like a pussy. I usually just say something like what I've written above, but you have to pick your spots and make sure it's not an issue that is overly sensitive to her. Plus if she's an emotional wreck of a girl with no confidence it may not work as well, but who wants a girl like that anyway?

sounds like she has some esteem issues. either that or you've established complete dominance. if the former, i'll take a shot in the dark and say she's not so hot. if the latter, you got her right where you want her.

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she has low self-esteem

start fucking with her (in a joking half-serious way) to make her step out of her shell

that,

or you aren't generating enough attraction for her to "engage" in the conversation

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