| In order to get something, you have to risk losing it.
Thats what I did the first two years of high school.
I didn't talk at all, rarely interacted with the girls. Then, during sophomore year, I started changing my appearance, my overall appeal. From the beginning to the end of the school year i went from skinny, pale, long hair, to cut, tan, spikey hair, i got a car (definate social value as a teenager lol), and so on. However, I kept my personal life away from the girls i knew, who pretty much all were interested in me. Now i've gone out with a few of them, managed to finish off one, (who was a senior in fact when i was a sophomore), and created a gap between me and them. Not the unfriendly kind of gap you get from people you don't like, the gap that says they have to jump in order to get to the other side, where they have to work for their rewards (being me).
Now thats how I changed my social and physical appearance in high school. Girls think the quiet ones were mysterious, and whenever I did talk only something smart would come out.
So give me your situation, let me know the details of your problems, because I dont know how many PUA master's are on this forum that are still in high school, however im not a master...yet lol.
I knew at the beginning of high school nothing was going to happen unless I make it happen. It took me that long for things to start.
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