First: Dated for 6months, broke up b/c of college, had many chances to get back with her and didnt take them, im an idiot, four years later and some girls later i still like her.

There is a good chance i'll see her this wednesday. I dont see her that often, but everytime i see her I work at advancing our relationship. The thing is im kinda stuck and dont know where/how to go from here.

Here is where im at-
I saw her mid summer around my town during the day. Was very talkative, did some DHV's and Negs. I had her laughing and it was a good convo.

The last time I saw her (end of summer) was at a bar. I walked up to her kissed her on the cheek, (like i normally do- we've been pretty good friends for the past 2 years) told her i was going to get a drink and ill talk to her later. I ignored her the whole time and hit on the two girls she came with. I could feel her looking at me the whole night. It was than time to go, I said goodbye to her friends and than to her. She made some comment to me, I forget what, but i could tell she was upset that I ignored her.

I dont really know where to go from here. Should I stick with ignoring her, or go into some routines and start hitting on her again? Plus there is the obstacle of her b/f. Any advice would be awesome.

This last two paragraphs is EXACTLY where I am with a "one-itis"-type girl right now. Easily a 9.5 or 10/10. I froze her out yesterday, talking to everyone else and telling jokes etc. to them...and and at the end of the day she gave me a dirty look when she walked out.

Obviously, she wants your attention (just like this girl wants mine), and you don't want her to move on...but there's concern about tipping your hand. I'm not sure where to go from here either...

BUT, I was thinking that I (and I guess you, too) should just handle it as though she was another, not nearly-as-attractive girl who had a crush on you that you were "humoring." For me, that would mean stopping her tomorrow and asking, obliviously "what's with the dirty looks, kid?"

I have no idea at all what she'd say though. If she says "nothing." You could still pull the cool big-brother thing and say "oh, come on. It's somethin'." And at that point I imagine she couldn't resist giving you a little bit of the truth.

And from there...I'm not sure. Maybe play it by ear and apologize and tell her you thought she wanted to cool it off? Both of us are in a tough spot.

all girls want attention....especially if you have been REALLY good friends with her for two years. Then out of nowhere you just ignore her (her thoughts)?

A freeze out is a good thing; but only when the person you are freezing out is going to work to make things better - or try to come back to you. She may be...she may not be...but to be friends for 4 years and then ignore her one day - she probably just thinks you were in a pissy mood.

The methods of sarging a 4 year old ex-girlfriend good friend is a lot different than sarging a woman you just met. I don't know what to do in your position, but if anything, sexual tension is the way to go....not the asshole route. Negging and DHV'ing arnt going to do anything because she already knows how high of value you have, and already knows how you act. You're in the comfort zone. Escalate.

Flirting with other girls is a great thing, but start flirting with her too.

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We havnt been Really good friends, just friends. We worked together for a summer and became friends again and since than we just see each other everyonce in a while.

I guess im gonna try for some flirting, kino and b/f destroyers.