I dont know, i meen, im not affraid of talkin w/girls im very outgoing its just i dont know how to escelate conversation or through the conversation draw the attention to me.

Ill be chilling with my friends and we will get some girls to gravitate to our group, and i often find myself either talking alot to my boys about something that happend to us (but i dont include the gilrls in the conversation i dont know how i could) or i just sit there, and chill waiting for my oppertunity to make a comment.

Sometimes im just sitting there waiting for something to pop up in my mind for me to say.

meh, i have no prblems talking to girls, but i dont know if im correct in my assessment when i say that random is sometimes good, but being seen as the joker and not the alpha is not.

Theres a diff between being seen to always have a good time and being a joke.

well if the girls come over and you are talking to your friends a little to much... say hey girls listen to what happened to me and my friends one time... then just tell a funny or interesting experience that you and your friends went through one time...


for instance one time me and my friend from college, just said man you want to go to canada..we are from PGH, PA so its liek a 4 hour drive... he said yea the crazy sob that he is so we skipped our last class took our friend kim, jumped in the car and off we went...totally spontaneous all happened within an hour... got to canda gambled, hit a strip club, and a club then drove all the way home back to pGH, PA all in the same day/night am... total trip time 2pm-8am next morning...


now i think you get the idea here so just share an exeprience whether its exciting, great, interesting or it can also be a mishap, a story about when everything just seemed to go wrong etc.. it wont matter... just tell them but when you tell them be enthuastic, use hand gestures... be sure to keep great eye contact throughout the story... and be animated...


then after the story ask the girls to tell you a story... they will giggle, think it over and the alpha girl will tell u a story..then you are in...

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