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| Artist617 | PostPosted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 9:55 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Tue Sep 11, 2007 1:49 pm Posts: 390 Website: http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=382875915 AOL: bostonskyline617 Location: Boston | | How would you respond if a hb ask you hi are you having fun? Now how would you respond if you ask that question and she said yes I am. Or no and then she tell you why. How would you respond after that. I need everyone input so even if you think your respond sound cool or dumb make a reply to this post. Thanks Artist
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| Rye Lee | PostPosted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 10:17 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator Emeritus |  | Joined: Sun Sep 09, 2007 7:17 pm Posts: 4508 Website: http://www.facebook/urbanundergroundculture.com Location: Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada | | If she asks, then I'd say, "I'm always having fun" with a big grin.
If you ask her and she says yes, then I'd make myself the focal point of her fun by asking what she's enjoying the most and then relate myself to it through a DHV story.
If she says she's not having fun and tells you why, then I'd find a positive aspect and make her see why I'm so fun and how hard it is to be unhappy around me. _________________ "The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch
~ Rye
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| Artist617 | PostPosted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 1:19 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Tue Sep 11, 2007 1:49 pm Posts: 390 Website: http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=382875915 AOL: bostonskyline617 Location: Boston | | im going to need everyone input, And dont worry anything is good
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| Ka | PostPosted: Fri Nov 16, 2007 9:54 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Oct 13, 2007 1:40 am Posts: 991 AOL: ctbinccp Location: philly | | Rye pretty much hit the nail on the head.
Usually i wouldnt ask a girl if she is having fun though.
I might say something like...
"Looks like your having fun...."
"You look bored, thats not allowed around me."
The first one will allow you to smoothly transition into a DHV story and explain why things are fun in relation to you.
The second negs her (in a way), but also invites her into your frame and allows you to pull her in and become the reason why she goes from bored to having fun.
If a women asks you if your having fun, you can answer several ways, always in a round about way of saying yes.
"Of course, how could someone not have fun here?" (through body language make the here the area around you, not the venue)
"Me and my friends are having an amazing time, you should join us, you look like your bored."
"Im having more fun then i can handle, you should have some of mine."
idk just some things i thought up on the fly, use with caution lol.
Hope this helps _________________ -Ka-
"Be the same, only better."
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