The only thing that holds me back , is that im a bit fat. I was with my friend and another ''friend''(idiot who makes me feel like shit). We were talking to some girls in school. Then my friend put out some gums and i asked him for one. Then the ''friend'' told me with a gentle , humilating though voice ,'' no you mustnt take another one , youll get fatter''. I felt like shit and this was reflected by me being shy e.t.c. The girls i was making laugh now smiled, or even giggle about my ''friends'' comment. What should i do? What should i answer?

Hey Man,

First of all I'm sorry to hear your friend said that, I'm sure it was in a joking manner but I know how you feel! It really hurts the game when a buddy DLV's you. I was the same way in High School, shy, overweight, and self concious. The only thing I can think of that you can really do is just laugh it off like it doesn't affect you to DHV, or ignore the comment. I would say if you interject some whitty come back to your buddy then you are DLV'ing yourself by showing that the comment bothered you. Laugh it off, and run another thread, or stack a routine.

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play it off like it didnt affect you, then either talk to your "friend" alone about this issue, or if you dont think that will work, cut him from your social circle.

the wieght thing is something that can be fixed so be glad about that, unlike lets say hieght for instance you cant change that, so your in luck
if you are as you say kinda overwieght then it should be fairly easy to drop the pounds.

i lost 35lbs over this summer by eating soup, and occasionally eating a subway sandwich. drink water instead of soda pop, each can of soda pop has like 150 calories in it, and if your like me and you like food then i personally would rather spend those calories on something that is solid rather than a liquid, if you cant part with the soda pop like me then switch to zero calorie diet soda, such as diet dr pepper, diet coke, or the new coke zero(my personal fav) along with staying active all day

if you are serious about your wieght then go to the mayo clinic web site and you can create your own diet plan for free. this is how i did it.

i didnt mean to go on a tangent there about wieght, but this is something i have had to deal with and i wanted to share my input on how i handled this issue.

the truth is if your game is tight enough, looks dont matter, ever wonder how some asshole or some scuzzy looking freak got with a certain girl?

of course the whole pua thing is about being your best self

so if you can improve something in your life you should, you need to assess yourself and think about what is it that i can improve about me. such as

how are my grooming habits?
how is my posture?
do i have a lot of friends or do i need to expand my social circle?
whats working for me and what isnt?

hang in there man high school is a tough time in ones life. you are in the right place, if i can help any further just let me know

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dude i feel for you i wouldnt even call that a friend. That is the worst thign he can do he lowered your self esteem and made you look bad. If that ever happens again say soemthing like i dont rememebr asking your opiniong in a seriosu voice. This will make your value go high because it will make you look like you are defending yourself. And he will look like an idiot because he wont know what to say. Here is why you cant just not say anythign even though he was kidding he made you look like an idiot just standing there will lower your value.

My friend I will tell you the reason why he made this "comment" about you. To put it very simply, he is not confident aswell. He made this comment about you to make you look bad, and make himself look better.

If he says this to you you can do what someone already mentioned in this post, you can say : I didnt ask for your opinion, I just want your damn gum thats all I need you for

that will put him in place, and yea, don't hang around these "friends" anymore

edit: forgot to say : when you say "I didnt ask for your opinion, I just want your damn gum thats all I need you for." Make sure you don't say this angry, then it will apear it really hurt you

here it is! enjoy, I use this all the time, just talk people down amog-style its totally alpha male too (im fit so i tailor it tho).

[youtube]http://youtube.com/watch?v=ah7La8DZ67s[/youtube]


o and take care of ur weight issue tho just for ur health ya know? heart attacks are never good when in a set.