Alright, this is only my second post here. Sarged last weekend for really the 1st time with "some" knowledge of the game, having just bought it last Thursday. I move up to the bar and am instatly approached by HBindaknow. She wraps her arm around me and whispers in my ear, "Hey you peacocking bitch." As she's saying this she simultaneously reaches for my derby. "Hey! I charge people $40 to touch me," is my first reaction. (so proud of myself) I turn and with a sly but curious smile I tell her I don't understand what she's talking about. "You know you're peacocking right now," is her response. I quickly downshift and redirect her attention back to her. She now casually calls the bartender over and annouces that I'm going to buy her a drink. Really? I don't think so. She eventually calls him over 4 times each time he walks away tipless. "You're fucking smooth," she coos in my ear. "I know I am," I tell her with not even a smile on my face. She then tells me that if I were to buy her a drink I would "really" be grateful. I feel her hand now begin to rub the outer part of the front of my pants. Instant boner! I hadn't gotten to the "you only get 3 strokes" part in the book and wish I would have used. She's still calling me a peacocking bitch and can't stop asking for a drink. Not really a problem as holding out really does seem to be working. She then announces that maybe the reason I'm not buying her a drink is because she's married. Shows me the rock and tells me that her huband basically plays OT for the Houston Texans. I scan the room, never losing my smile and ask where he is, I enjoy chewing my food with my own teeth and would perfer to keep them. I play it smooth and she shyly says she's out alone simply having fun tonight. BTW, can I buy her a drink. She's boring me now and I realize that she's done this little act before. "My friends are leaving, I have to go," I say. She steals my hat! What happens next can only be explained as hat yoyo. Back and forth it goes. At first I felt annoyed because there were a couple of hb's sitting a couple of tables down. I later realized she was actually social proofing me. Either way, I got the wrong vibe from her and decided enough was enough. I was going to walk away with her and anyone else watching wanting more. I point to my cheek and she kisses it right away. Don't get me wrong, she was blonde, early 40's, nice rack and huge tits (which she makes me look at and actually compliment, I forgot to mention) but she seemed to "know" too much about what I was doing. In the end, of course I'm chalking it up to experience and will remember how I felt, wanted to feel and eventually, what I did. Didn't # close but didn't really want to. Besides I don't think she would have given it to me anyway. I had fun and felt on top of the world afterwords, I mean I did get my cock rubbed in front of an entire group of people.

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It's better to die on your feet than live on your knees.

You didn't think she's have gone for a #-close? Your probably right... but 9 out of 10 that you could have fucked her in the bathroom right then and there.

Holy blatant IOI's SPAM!

She opened you, initiated kino, as far as the peacocking thing... tell her your a proffesional bingo player and it's part of your uniform... and that you don't know what peacocking is. (It's not lying it's flirting)

When she calls to the bartender cut her off before she can claim that your going to buy her a drink... and say something to the effect of

PUA:"How nice of you to want to buy me a drink... but I'm no slut, it'll take more then a drink to get in my pants!"


at th point when she started rubbing my leg thats when you, you grab her hand, and give it a little squeeze as you call her a "Naughty naughty girl"... then cut her off mid-response with a finger to the mouth, and a "shhh... you talk to much" as you go for the k-close


I get the feeling this lady was looking for a foolsmate from you... chalk it up to experience, and next time be a bit more watchfull for your IOI's

This bitch was just playing you, you did good though, once she grabed your cock, I would of said well now you have to buy me a drink, or are you just a gold digger trying to get good looking men like me to buy you drinks. Then said buy the first round of drinks and then I'll get the next round, that's how me and my friends do it, good luck.

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TheMoneyMan1

-RISK- "Only those who will risk going far can find out how far one can go"

Ok, first of all . . . "nice rack and huge tits", lol, is kind of making the same point twice.

Beyond that, I agree with everything The Doc said and would add that since you did realize later that she was socially proofing you, also realize that she was MAJORLY socially proofing you. Those other HB's watching you, you should have not only opened, number closed, and kiss closed, but even fuck closed later on.

How that whole scenario should have played out (for future refference) is, you get the fools mate with her, get ENORMOUSLY socially proofed, then get the close with the other HB's as well and probably even turn them into FB's.

Lot's of women are on this stuff now due to Mystery's show.
She seemed really really into you doing all that......why didn't you umm quote"Pull the Trigger"

Obviously he wasn't "experienced" enough too yet, lol.

Nice to meet you Claire and welcome to the forum.

The peacocking term did not originate with the community. I do not think she knew about from that perspecitive.

When a girl becomes very insistent on me buying a drink, I challege her to find some other guy to buy us both a drink. I will tell her what I want and to not come back until she has it.


Makes you look at and compliment.
I assume she propped them up and said something like 'aren't they nice'....

I would have said that they were too big for my taste but plenty of other guys probably like them.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

That's funny I'm sure I heard reference to Peacocking on the show and in his book I don't get what your saying about it not originating from the community

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I'm almost as sweet as lemon juice... almost

The term is used by the community. This does not mean that it was invented by it.

Other people use the term peacocking, even in the same context, without knowing anything about the community.

(Male peacocks have a very bright plume of feathers to attract female peacocks. Female peacocks, on the other hand, are very plain and do not have the bright plume of feathers.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

Oh snap, welcome Claire. OF course she has a point, here gentlemen. With a laundry list of IOIs that you described pulling the proverbial trigger is very high on the chalkboard. All in all, I say you did a good job of peacocking, keep it up.

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i lust for jessica alba, but now since she is preggers. I am lusting for Nicole!!! It's New Year's Day. It was Ben Franklin who said, "Be always at war with your vices, at peace with your neighbors, and let each new year find you a better man."

ooooooohh my . . . dear Claire . . . do you have to have everything spelled out to you?

Yes, you "did" hear/see peacocking talked about on the show, IF you really watched the show . . .

lol, have fun with the boys in here honey . . . if you think you can handle them.

I'm glad I'm not a peacock..

A gamecock is more like it..

There's a difference..

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=4ufa-q7DcWM

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YES

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I'm almost as sweet as lemon juice... almost

You guys will literally turn into a peacock somebody wearing all that mess

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I'm almost as sweet as lemon juice... almost

Yeah, I like to wear as little as possible..

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http://youtube.com/watch?v=4ufa-q7DcWM