Guyz, i have got this little problem. I went with the girl from my class to local lake (it has really great wiew) and I tried to kiss her. But, I just couldn't do it. I tried mystery's story about the animals, but it just didn't work. All the time I had these "what if" thoughts, so I couldn't get the courage. Also, I am afraid that I may have "missed the moment". What to do???

I totally understand your problem , not that long ago i was with this stunning young lady. Her eyes were screaming "KISS ME" but i was absolutely petrified... Next day i felt absolutely stoopid , vowing to never let a chance like that pass ever again.

So here is what worked for me ever since.

1. Try not to isolate ( mystery C1-3 ) while thinking "hey if i play my cards just right i might end up kissing this woman and who knows what else might happen ....." Try to have " a good time, get to know eachother better" kind of mood going.

2 When the time for kissing arrives -wich eventually will happen- just use the 3 second rule dont give yourself the time to doubt. ( like nike , just do it) personally i like the hitch, tilting and go 80% of the way kinda kiss approach.

Tough it seems like u have to force yourself, after several closes like this it will become natural ...

It worked for me ... i am sure it will work for u

As always let us know how it works out

So, I met her yesterday again. And, I decided to make her my friend, just a friend. At first, she started speaking about how she would never date a guy from the class. Then she told me how she's in bad mood because she was supposed to meet her two boyfriends. So, I did the most stupid thing, I told her how I would never date her, when she's like that (I mean two boyfriends), then that it's not fair towards the guys, and so on. Later, I persuaded her to let one guy go. I have feeling, that I screwed it up sooo much. This sucks. But now, at least I know that I am supposed just to go. Also, there is one part of me that's mad I chickened out. Well, time to start dating other females! Just one question, where I am supposed to meet women of my age (high school that is, lower grades) i town, where are a lot of bars and cafés but no clubs or similar meeting places? I can't in school, or at least I don't know how. Please help, how did you guys met women in high scool?

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