Ok i might got a problem. This is it:
I'm seeing the same girl for about 4/5 weeks now and i'm starting to get feelings for her. She is super nice and a bit insecure. I promised to myself not to cheat on her, i don't want her to get hurt. So i'm going LTR. I just started with picking up and i'm afraid this LTR will stop me from progressing. I might even settle for this HB8. What do you more experienced fellows think? How can i rebuild my frame?

Dude... Why did you go into the game? Do you want to lay a lot of chicks or do you want an extraordinary connection with one special girl? And is the HB8 this special girl?

If it's the latter and if you both really like each other then go LTR. Don't worry about not progressing. Don't let the feeling that you have to progress in your game come between you and a great relationship.

Besides I believe that your game does progress in a relationship. If you are cocky/funny (for instance) towards your girlfriend then it will be natural for you to act this way around other girls. Furthermore you can also test routines on her and hereby discover what works for you. So if she in fact is very special to you and you both really like each other then go for the LTR.

To me it sounds a bit like you need to find out what it is that you want to get out of all this self improvement that you do whilst learning the game. And one more thing. The difference between love and one-itis as I see it is this:

One-itis: The girl doesn't like you back but you are obsessed with her. Hell, she might not even know about your existence but yet you don't cease thinking about her.

Love: You have both discovered that you really care about each other and that you feel happy together.

Best of luck

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ok so we can rule out one-itis

thanx for the advice. i think i just go with the flow and stay with her for the time it takes.
it's just it is so much fun going out sarging. i'll miss it.