hi, well i was on a homeparty with some friends, and we had kinda like a kissinggame there, where we should kiss the girls and make a mark for each kiss. all the girls gave like a 1 second kiss. but then asked one of the girls ive known for many years. she held a around me and kissed me for 2- 3 second, maybe im making to mutch out if this, but in my mind it felt like she wanted it :S)

but then later that night the girl that i have known for many years and me, decided to go down town to an other party. while walking we talked about how we looked. she ment that she had a little to mutch meat on her bones. i tried to convince her othervice, and i went a little kino on her.
she said: are you hiting on me ?
i felt like i was pushed in a corner, and i kinda got panic and said
:no, i can ensure you that im not.

and after that, we walked on still talking, but when i stoped to talk she ment we should walk and talk, so we could faster get to the party. not that earlier it was a problem to stop and talk. it was like she just didnt want to spend one on one time with me more.

i fucked up there. i still hate myself for doing that.
do you think i had a change or what '? or is it just me making to mutch out if it again?

and what if had had said
"I havent thought so mutch about it. why ? do you want me to ?"
its a good line, but could the same thing happen to her? that she felt like she was pushed in a corner by being asked if she want me to hit on her. and then give me answer like" no not at all, just checking" or something like that. ?

any thoughts or comment would help. btw sry about my english not being that good

man i really cant be arsed reading this... its a terrible story...

do u even know wot a PUA is or did u just want us to help u with the odd thing in your love life?

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Gammbit

OK - first off - it was a game. Thats it. Girls can be convinced to do a lot of things if its a game. Ever play truth or dare? You can get girls to take their clothes of very easily for the sake of a game.

Second, when she called you for hitting on her, your response was terrible. First, what was her tone when she said it? Playful? Serious? Creeped out? She may have wanted you to be hitting on her. You're response - very AFC. This is the perfect time for a cocky funny line - 'Pft, I don't even know if you were even worth it to hit on' or 'Wow, and all this time I thought you were hitting on me'. Freeze her out, make her feel uncomfortable for questioning you, then when she tries to win you back, reward her with kino. And no, ""I havent thought so mutch about it. why ? do you want me to ?" is not any better of a response then the one you said. A PUA never asks permission to escalate.

For all purposes, you blew it with this chick. To begin with, if you've been friends for years with no sexual tension, its VERY hard to change that image. This isn't the movies where the girl ditches the alpha male for the beta best friend since child hood. Move on, plenty of fishes in the sea.

Sorry if this isn't what you wanted to hear.

its just that ive have thought about it alot. but as i read it again,i can see its bad written.i cant explane the situation very well as it happened for a long time ago. and by sorting out questions i got, i can understand what i should do next time, even though this example was bad.





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i finally got the concentration to read it all the way through so...

u for 1 are a serious AFC... u need to change if u a hanging on to the dream of getting with a girl just because u think she might have shown u a bit of interest. if u were to study how to become a pua then u could choose who u date and and be able to get them... but enough about that.. right.

when she was complaining about her body she was fishing for compliments and u took the chance to compliment her. bad move... u shouldnt have sed anything. next when she asked u if uu were hittin on her u should have sed 'do u want me to?' depending on the tone of voice.
but if she was creeped out then Exxxcel gave u some good comebacks..

if i were u i would think about wether u wat to be an AFC because i doubt u have a chance at getting her now...

no offence btw

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Gammbit

non taken.

and i have moved on long time ago so no prob. and btw thanks