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And that's great. I agree with these things too. In fact, your second point is what he's saying that I'm wrong about.
Nooo, you see. You just didn't read my original statement correctly. I said that commonalities don't do much for attraction.
I never said commonalities can't help in seduction. Just making the point that to actually create attraction, a guy should build his attractive qualities. So a guy who is a 3 is better off building his attractive value if he wants to fuck girls who are of the level 8 in attractiveness. Rather than a 3 trying to find commonality in the hopes of fucking an 8, because although having commonality can make a seduction a lot easier and rapport is sometimes very useful. It is not commonality that does anything for attraction. Because commonality builds rapport. Do you understand now?
If you had read that statement correctly instead of hearing 'commonality can't help in seduction' rather than what I originally said. I would never of had to have backed up my statement since then.
So far you have not given an explanation of how commonality can do anything for attraction. Because you can't, commonality builds rapport, not attraction. That is why I've been asking you to explain how a guy who is valued at 3 in attraction could pull a girl who is an 8 through commonality, because that is not the nature of seduction. For a girl to fuck a guy she needs to find him attractive, which is build through developing your attractive values. (Personality, attitude, looks, way you look, lifestyle and ability to seduce).
I'm pretty sure you understand this because honestly I don't doubt your knowledge or skills in seduction. I just think you heard what you wanted to hear from my original statement. If you don't and you honestly believe that girls find commonalities attractive then feel free to explain. But as far as I'm concerned they don't do anything for attraction, they build rapport. Attractive value is not build through commonality. Once again, it's build through attractive values.
The answer to OP's question was actually very simple. It was probably answered on the first page of this thread. Then you tried to be smart and over complicate it by bringing warm approach and cold approach into things. A little off topic, but a warm approach is always easier to convert, but attractive value still the reason it would be easier for a 5 to get a 3 than it would for them to get an 8. The whole reason we learn to approach correctly in pick up is to be able to widen our net our further than our alleged social circles though. And attractive value is fundamental whether the approach is cold or warm, or whether there is commonality or not.
Also, don't try to use the age gap to make it sound as though your words are anymore insightful than my own. That's a little silly. I might be 22, but fuck I'm good with women and I know what I'm talking about.