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PostPosted: Sun Nov 19, 2017 10:31 pm 
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UPDATE:we were to meet today but she flaked and said that she can't make it because she is down with flu and that she also needs to take care of her sick mom.She agreed to a one on one date though and suggested we meet midweek.I agreed but said i can't make commitments i may be busy.And then today happened.

I called her and she did not pick up.She later sent me a voice note saying she is busy and that she was walking when she was recording that voice note.She was breathing heavily i guess the reason being she was walking around the neighborhood as she put it which begs the question how was she able to walk if she was down with a flu? If someone is well enough to walk around,aren't they fit enough to meet up for a cup of coffee or am i just overthinking this?

I did not respond to her voice note but i called her later and we talked for a while until the phone call ended abruptly.I thought it was a network issue so i called back only to find out that her phone was busy.So my guess is she ended my phone call to talk to someone else.I did not call or text.I was curious to see whether she would call back and apologize for ending our phone call.I went online on my messenger and i saw she was online.I ignored her.hours later i get a love emoji with the words goodnight.

What are your thoughts guys? Is it a dead set or can it be salvaged.I plan to ignore her for now.How should i respond if she texts again?


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 19, 2017 10:49 pm 
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Chill out!

The girl sent you a fucking heart emoji. Stop calling her, too.

she has other men in her life. Fall back. she'll hit you up.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 20, 2017 7:54 am 
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Stop treating his feelings as facts! If someone's about to do something stupid, either tell him not to do it or don't say anything at all. Don't encourage people to be idiots. There are always options. Most of the barriers to his meeting more women are ones that he has made up himself.
He wants to go and there’s no major losses if he does. Idc what you think but a worst it’s a learning experience.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 20, 2017 11:57 am 
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UPDATE:She texted me just right now saying hi.Should i ignore her or respond considering what she did last night Where she hang up on me while i was talking to her on the phone.At first i thought it was a network issue only to find out that her phone was busy again meaning she actually hang up on me to talk to someone else which i think is a bit disrespectful.
I didn’t contact her after that.She then sent a text saying goodnight with a heart emoji.I did not respond to that either.
What should i say to her latest text? Or should i ignore her completely? And if i respond should i raise the issue of last night with her where she hang up on me?


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 20, 2017 12:33 pm 
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UPDATE:She texted me just right now saying hi.Should i ignore her or respond considering what she did last night Where she hang up on me while i was talking to her on the phone.At first i thought it was a network issue only to find out that her phone was busy again meaning she actually hang up on me to talk to someone else which i think is a bit disrespectful.
I didn’t contact her after that.She then sent a text saying goodnight with a heart emoji.I did not respond to that either.
What should i say to her latest text? Or should i ignore her completely? And if i respond should i raise the issue of last night with her where she hang up on me?
Don't ignore her, just chill out and be fun with her. She's probably talking to other guys as well, which is normal. See other women at the same time as well.

If you didn't have oneitis, none of this would matter as you would have nexted her when she brought up the "I'm bringing a friend"

She has the power at the moment to pick and chose and it's evident you don't. Date her if you wish but she will always have power over you and is that something you really want?

Lots of women hang up the phone, may of been a urgent phonecall.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 20, 2017 11:12 pm 
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UPDATE:She texted me just right now saying hi.Should i ignore her or respond considering what she did last night Where she hang up on me while i was talking to her on the phone.
Do you think a guy with a lot of options would "give a girl his piece of mind" on something so small, or would he not give a flying fuck because he can text another girl and have her over that night?


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At first i thought it was a network issue only to find out that her phone was busy again meaning she actually hang up on me to talk to someone else which i think is a bit disrespectful.[.qyote]

It is disrespectful. But it's also the sign of a socially valuable person with abundance.

I do this to women. I have a very strict guideline of physical/mental features I look for, or "my type".

When you get abundance, you dismiss orbiters like leaves in the wind. It simply has NO EFFECT on you, because you have so many options.

To a man who is thirsty as hell, a woman hanging up on him, and talking to someone else will seem like a huge deal.

But it's not.


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I didn’t contact her after that.She then sent a text saying goodnight with a heart emoji.I did not respond to that either.
Nice.

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What should i say to her latest text? Or should i ignore her completely? And if i respond should i raise the issue of last night with her where she hang up on me?

NO. Mentioning the phone thing is the kind of neurotic Debbie Downer talk that men get nexted/blown off for.

You are not in a relationship with this woman. You are not exclusive. She doesn't owe you a damn thing.

Keep it fun and chill. invite her over for Netflix. The girl sent you a fucking heart emoji, lol.

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PostPosted: Tue Nov 21, 2017 11:08 pm 
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Lol

Joining this orgy!

The sister thread is fucking hilarious. Wait, is the friend the sister? Noiiiice!!! She's planning to exact some sadistic strap-on revenge.

This situation is no different to meeting two girls at a club and having to iso one. If you can't handle one extra girl how the fuck are you gonna handle life?

Too much fear based thinking.

"I only want to meet you alone", "Um, is it ok if I bring a friend too" = creepy, scared, pussy I'm never fucking
"sure no worries, bring your friend, gonna be fun" = cool, fun, guy I want to fuck

Typically if you're cool, she'll give the friend a nod and the friend will bail. Been in the spot 3 times, the first two we hooked-up that night, third time she brought 2 friends, WTF right! and had a boyfriend. Fucking day-game.

Oh and the sister thing. Stop hanging onto shit, wreck the set! Right when things are going great on the date, ask "So how's your sister...?"


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 22, 2017 11:10 pm 
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holy shit get some therapy.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 24, 2017 10:38 am 
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UPDATE:We talked on the phone for like an hour.says she wants to meet up but can't because she is taking care of her ailing aunt.I would have written her off a long time as not being interested but what makes me curious is that she talks to me on the phone for a long time.If she was totally not interested she wouldn't bother to talk even on the phone right? .I am not really sure if she is completely interested though.I haven't heard from her for days and i haven't really bothered to contact her.I think i will lay low with this set and see where it goes as i have other sets.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 24, 2017 12:25 pm 
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FRIEND ZONE - GAME OVER


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 24, 2017 3:49 pm 
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FRIEND ZONE - GAME OVER
So should i just delete her number and move on or keep engaging her because she will definitely contact me? We have this role play where we play husband and wife(learnt from this forum),so should i just keep it flirty with her,change tone or completely ignore her?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 24, 2017 4:36 pm 
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Either go no contact or have her as a friend on a purely platonic basis. Do what you want really


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 24, 2017 9:02 pm 
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Either go no contact or have her as a friend on a purely platonic basis. Do what you want really
Shit i don't want to be friends with her lol plus she said she wants to have a relationship with me so i wouldn't to say she wants to be entirely platonic.The no contact thing won't work with her because she will definitely contact me.I think the question should be what to do when she eventually gets in touch that is my question.Should i ignore her texts,change how i talk to her or just keep our calls and texts fun,cheeky and full of jokes like they were?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 24, 2017 9:16 pm 
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OP, you were given advice by numerous posters. Perhaps you should go back in the thread and read it.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 24, 2017 9:48 pm 
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FRIEND ZONE - GAME OVER
So should i just delete her number and move on or keep engaging her because she will definitely contact me? We have this role play where we play husband and wife(learnt from this forum),so should i just keep it flirty with her,change tone or completely ignore her?
Jesus Christ quit with the role play, that's for the bedroom.

Block and delete her on all social media then block and delete her number.

Job done then move on.


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